A wrong type of lover is a type that is selfish, self-centered, and doesn't make their partner's needs come first. They tend to believe that by bullying and using belittling language that they have the upper hand. Those who are under that type of influence have a difficulty breaking free from the familiarity and starting over. They feel if they stay that they are safe, but they are denying that they are putting their mental or physical health on the decline. Those who truly love themselves will infact make the needed changes to leave the corruption which will weaken their souls.