Good Male Example

I have known many men in my life but only one man I can say is a perfect male example.

He was born in 1970. As the youngest child from 8 siblings. His grandmother raised him, far from his own mother. One day, the grandmother got sick, he then was sent back to his mother. Unfortunately, everyone saw him as an outsider. He did not belong.

His mother was too busy babying his elder siblings, never acknowledging him because apparently she did not raise him. Everyone left him the responsibility to take care of his sick father. Sick from Stroke. Never once he heard his father called his name but everyday he took care of him. In his own way, he had his fun with his father, even though he never heard him said his name yet he knew his father wanted to. As time passed, his father too passed.

He grew up, always different from the others yet he always cared for his family even though they ignored him. He was very good in academics, going to be an architect but being born in a poor family, he cannot afford the bill. He's settling in education. He aced in his life. His family definitely took advantage of it, asking him for money but he was wise, he knew they were up to no good, he was very careful to give them money and that made him being ignored worse.

At the age of 30, he met his woman. His woman is a widow with a 6 years old son. Some of his siblings opposed but like whoever been in love said "When you see her, you'll know, " that man definitely knew. He fought for her and they were happily married. He started his own family but his siblings still bothered him for money and when he explained that now his priorities are his wife and kids, they did not take it well. He and his family was never accepted fully unless when they give the siblings money.

The wife was very offended that she almost did not want to do anything with her in-laws. It was hard to visit them and be nice to them when they did not even spare them evwn a slightest glance. The man, he understood very well, deep down he was angry towards his siblings but he knew they are still family. No matter how bad his siblings treated him, he still treat them as human. He cannot see them as siblings anymore after all that but he still can see them as human beings.

This man is strong, so strong. How did I know? I was there when those people treated his family like dirts because I am his daughter. I am proud of the man, he is not acting stupidly nice to them. He definitely not but he is nice to them as a human to another human. I am surely have my own fair share of hatreds but watching him being neutral. I learnt that, we should kill people with kindness, don't stress yourself for unworthy people. Enjoy your life with your loved ones. Be positive, always so that you will not hurt by someone you don't like because they existed. It's not healthy.