Which should I cut first?

Just as Xiao Lei was feeling bad, Han Ye added, "But I think that it's ok. The selfish you now is different from the selfish you back in the past."

She frowned slightly as she thought about his words. She then looked at him and asked curiously, "What do you mean?" 

"When we were kids, you cared a lot about having fun and always did things your own way, and you neglected people's feelings. But as an adult, even though you are hiding a lot of things from me and you are still doing things your own way..." he said.

His words were like knives that stabbed into Xiao Lei's heart, and she sighed internally at his description of her.