Dia POV's
My mind was still not accepting the fact of how he came to know me and my family.
So after a few days of waiting anxiously, I decided to call him and ask him directly when and where he got my information.
So I sent him a message asking whether he was free and if he had time to call.
He replied a few minutes later that he was free.
Then I called him
conversation between some and did
Dia:- Assalam Walaikum
Zikr:- Walaikum Assalam.
Dia:- How are you and I hope didn't disturb you
Zikr:- I am fine Alhamdulillah and how are you doing and no you didn't disturb me
Dia:- I am fine Alhamdullillah. How are your parents and How is Aunty? Is she doing good.?
Zikr:- Everyone is fine Alhamdullillah. Do you have something important to talk about?
Dia:- I know I might sound rude and impolite to call you for this reason. the reason I called you is to ask did we meet before and how did you get information related to me? And are you sure about your proposal because we come from very different backgrounds and cultures? I know you might think I am being too much but can you please tell me honestly,
Zikr:- First of all, I know you are concerned about our background and lifestyles. Don't worry about it. It will be a normal lifestyle if you accept my proposal.
Secondly, I saw you in an interview in an A nation Almost four years back. I liked your first impression. You seemed a nice good Muslimah girl. If you think I am creepy I don't mean to make you uncomfortable. I apologise for that.
I just asked my friend who worked in the hotel about you. Since you are coming for an interview. He can't find any information about you. So I gave up.
But then I saw you when I meet my mother so I instantly told my mother to send a proposal to you.
I hope you don't mind.
If you have any other questions you can ask me now.
Dia:- Thank you for answering all questions politely. I apologise for being rude and inconsiderate for asking such questions.
I sincerely apologise for taking a lot of time.
May Allah keep you and your family safe and healthy
Allah hafiz.
Zikr:- Allah hafiz.
I felt much better after the call. If I have more questions, I will ask again.
After that call, I went to sleep. Since I call Zikr after praying Isha'a.
Even though I am more inclined to accept the proposal I still have doubts.
I always kept in my mind, the conditions I will propose when I will get married.
The two conditions that I will propose
1.If the partner abuses his spouse physically mentally and emotionally, the abusive partner and the spouse will be a divorce at that moment.
(If the couple has kids, the abusive has to provide child support for kids. The custody goes to the spouse who is abused. The abusive partner can meet his kids under certain conditions.)
2. If the partner cheats on his spouse. the partner and the spouse will be divorce at most in a month.
(If the couple has kids, the spouse who is more financially stable has to provide child support for kids. The custody goes to the spouse who is cheated on but can meet his kids whenever the partner wants.)
Even though, it sounds like I am paranoid. But I know how it is to live with an abusive parent and how much you are helpless that you can do anything.
My Safety is first if my husband wants to get married he should accepts these conditions.
And sign in our Nikkah papers and a prenuptial agreement.
So I have legally and Islamically protected myself.
I have the intention of marrying him. So I am in a dilemma whether should I send him directly or tell him through the family.
I don't know what to do now.
Let me sleep and think tomorrow.
Good night.