If you are not at peace with your thoughts, don't expect anyone to express theirs to you, their happiness and sadness to be disclosed in front of you.
If you are not at peace with your feelings, don't expect anyone to be honest with you about theirs. Syna knew that she had to come out with a serene state of mind, to understand and to comprehend what Lolita had to tell.
Because if you can't be at peace with the closest people around you, don't expect new people to enter your life. Syna felt it completely, the need of the situation to hear out what her beloved friend had to present.
The cursed bride had heard Sinclair MacLaverty, her beloved mate, whom she had loved from the core of her heart, saying that 'only he was allowed to kill her'!