New Year's Eve

It's all fun when you celebrate with your partner. Being married for 6 years we hardly had that evening or celebrated anything together. It's hard when you feel alone at a new year party people look happy, cherished and so welcoming for the coming year and you feel a kind of loneliness so you simply dig yourself into your phone camera and start clicking the memories though having nothing to cherish in them you still picture the moment to keep a souvenir.

Suddenly your phone buzzes and you see a text from someone you recently start to know and you became friends for life.

Being added to a group of school mates by a school time friend. Initially I felt like it was another group to mute. Being confused and messed up in my own life It never mattered to me that i was left with no friends to ventilate or talk out my feelings.

That new year eve brought me a gift of a friend I could call my BFF( best friend forever).

My phone buzzed and it was a class mate whom I simply knew as a class mate only. Like we had seen each other in school we were in same class but never talked. And that day he buzzed because he found no one to talk as everyone was busy welcoming the new year.

David: Hey!

Jenifer: Hi!

David: Nice Dp.

Jenifer: Thanks. And congratulations! Saw you won that cricket match.

David: Yeah! thanks team played well today.

Jenifer: hmmm. So no party today?

David: Had but not in the mood to attend one.

Jenifer: why? You can share only if it's comfortable to you.

David: No, it's fine just had an argument with my wife.

Jenifer: oh! Anything serious?

David: Nothing it's just sometimes we are not at the same page. I understand she's busy so I make arrangements but then she's like you could have said or asked. A simple thing made complicated by an argument made by her.

Jenifer: Hmmmm! Got it.

( I could get it because facing something almost similar with my husband. Couldn't make him understand what i wanted. Or all i wanted was his time).

Jenifer: So where is she now?

David: Sleeping.

Jenifer: And you're awake. She fell asleep while crying?

David: Hmmmm. I guess so.

Jenifer: David, being married for 6 years now i can say that All she might want is your company. Have you ever made her feel that you're trying to help and support her. Have you ever hugged her? Or kissed her out of blue? While she's doing household things or taking care of your son.

( m trying to counsel him for what i want to tell my husband)

David: would this be fine if I kiss my girlfriend?( He replied jokingly)

Jenifer: Do you have a girlfriend?

David: No! I'm thinking about having one;-)

( He was trying to flirt)

Jenifer: You should focus on your wife first. You have issues handling one wife and you dream about getting another.

(Was counseling him how to convince his wife In the meantime new year celebrations started . We both wished each other a Happy New Year then went to our partners to wish)

A new year had begun with a new beginning of a new friendship that Sparked with that little conversation that night.