A Message to My Father

I wish you would have reached out to me.

If I don't talk to my mama for a week she calls me.

Why can't you do the same?

If you want a female you call her.

If you want some pu$$y you call that b*ch.

But when it's your daughter, the one that you should call all the time, or at least to check up on her....

The phone doesn't ring.

You left her to wonder...

Wonder what it is like to be on a date ..

Wonder how a man should treat a woman...

Although her Grandpa did his best, it's not like the feeling of a dad.

How could she even expect more from you?

How could she expect you to know how to treat a woman anyway?

You have 8 kids and at least 4 of them have different Mama's.

How do you end up with that many children without being charming?

You daughter is charming...

she may get it from you..

She doesn't know.

Your daughter is hella smart..

She may get it from you..

She doesn't know.

Your daughter is hella ambitious, talented, charming, intelligent, goal-oriented, thoughtful, mindful

SHE MAY GET IT FROM YOU

BUT SHE DOESNT KNOW!

She has only had three men in her life.

Her two uncles and her Grandpa.

Her Grandpa is gone.

One uncle has no children and the other has too many and isn't any better than you.

So now, she just wants someone who cares.

None of the men in her life care.

She wants someone who WILL call her to check on her, say happy birthday, treat her to a night out and do EVERYTHING SHE WOULD HAVE DONE WITH YOU!

she just want YOU to care. She just wants You to call. To get to know her more. To see her with her guard down. She just wants her dad.

That's all.

She wants to know what she had been missing out on and what other girls understood that she did not.

How could she ever get married when all the women in her life told her to stay away from boys and

F*ck MEN!

She obeyed.

So she needs to understand that men are nothing to be afraid of. Men arent an enemy. They have feelings too.

Your dad will protect you.

Your husband will too.

If you do care....it would be nice for you to let her know you care.

The same effort you put in to get into somebody daughter panties

Is the same effort you should put in for your daughter.

She tried to be patient with you.

She tried to make amends.

She tried to get to know you.

She tried to talk to you and understand you.

When will you try?

When will you care?

When will the effort come around?

But now...you've made her angry.

She just wants someone who cares.