The Journey Of Samkelisiwe Nzama

My relationship with the Maduwa became a bit tense. Very much hectic allow me to say. I called him in the midnight hour this other day. And we actually catched up. The Maduwa guy was the person the would actually ghost on me.But when we get to talk he would go all day. I loved him soo much.

I couldn't pronounce his surname but I know how to spell it though. So told him over our conversation that I still can't pronounce his surname. But he has been teaching me. He told me that his surname was Venda and alot of people usually struggle to call it out properly. This Maduwa guy was Venda? I thought he was Zulu. It showed me clearly I didn't know the guy more than I thought.

He told me that his mother was half Venda and Pedi. So that's where the Venda came from.But his dad is originally from Emsinga in Kwa Zulu Natal not far from Tugela Ferry. He said he loves it when he's there. So in our African when your dad Is Zulu the children that the men would have are also Zulu. You are what your dad is!

I greatest wish was to visit Limpopo and his mother was originally from there. Although he told all the negative living space that Limpopo has. He told me how hot it and the mosquitoes. All the things that one would regret about going there. He was like no "I would rather take you too my aunt house. My mother's younger sister,she lives in the suburbs. It's much better there". The Maduwa was just absolutely soo open. He actually opened up. I was surprised.