Helping A Friend In Need

Helping a friend in need means a lot to me because if they are having a difficult time dealing with their problems and they wanted to share their problems with someone that can help them be at peace and make the right decision. A friend is the one who can understand and feel what you feel. It's like putting yourself in someone's shoes.

I'm the type of person that is very approachable but not that friendly. I have many friends, and best friends and most of them seek help and advice from me because they said that I can help them with their problems. I'm also the type of person that seeks advice from my friends, and with my ability to advise people, I managed to help people who need my advice, that's why I made a blog at Word Press because I wanted to spread advice to all the people. I wanted to help people, and that is my goal in life. I also seek advice to myself like I'm the one who motivates myself all the time, telling myself that it's going to be OK, but there are times that if I have problems, my friends would chat me if what is the matter, and I would reply, and they also advise me. I loved it because whenever I have problems, they are always there with me right by my side, and I'm thankful that I have friends like them even though we did not see each other often now because we have different schools now and that we are in our college year.

I have ways to help a friend in need and these are:

· We have friends who are having a difficult time asking for help, but if you feel that he or she is having problems, approach them, and say, "what's the matter?" "What can I do to help?" let me know, and we can sort things out,"

· If he or she declines your help, do not force yourself to help because maybe they wanted to be alone.

· If you wanted to help your friend, help them with what you can give or help.

· Do not just make decisions because, in the end, they will make a decision.

· Be trusted

· Listen to what they will share with you.

· Help them see and realize the positive sides and not the negative sides.

Sometimes we need someone in our life that would be there by our side, not just make us happy but be cared for and supported. Friendship is not whom you have known the longest, it's about who walks into your life and say "I'm here for you" If you need me, I'm here, if you don't need me, I'm still here.