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"I don't want to find someone to settle down with." JJ shrugged. 

"Wait really"? Xander was a bit baffled to hear that.

"Yeah." JJ shrugged. "Why is that so surprising? Does everyone want to find someone to settle down with"? JJ was the one who was puzzled this time. 

"I mean, I dunno about the aliens, but many humans do." Xander shrugged. "I think it's some sort of cultural norm. We are in the 23rd century, and we still have some imprints of the ancient days." He chuckled.

"Is it really that necessary being with someone?" JJ asked. "I mean, I know I got lonely… but I enjoy having friends and all. I just don't want to get with someone eventually." He shrugged. 

"Oh… maybe you are an aroace." Xander nodded.

"Perks of being a hybrid"? JJ asked.

"What?" Xander was puzzled. "I don't think so. I mean, I don't know about Almis, but there are plenty of human aces in the world." Xander suggested.