Chapter 191: Prepare Your Mood

Marriage is a matter for two people, yet it is not.

Some people treat it as if it concerns only themselves, regardless of the opinions of friends or parents; they take advice but do not allow it to sway their personal decisions. The path they choose they must follow, even on their knees if necessary, without requiring others to take responsibility. Whether happiness or unhappiness follows, they bear all consequences alone, without blaming heaven or others. They would not place blame on their partners—should they blame anyone, they would blame only their poor judgment in choosing a partner.