RUN FOR YOUR LIFE
PHRASES:
1. We have less violence than our feelings. Personal, private, lonely pain is more terrifying than anyone can inflict.
2. Love is not the Ostia. Accepting the first mistreatment is the beginning of a long humiliation. Love yourself, they will not be able to mistreat you.
3. One in 3 women may experience abuse and violence in her lifetime. This is an abominable violation of Human Rights, but it continues to be one of the most invisible and little-known pandemics of our time.
4. Defend your life, fight for your independence, seek your happiness and learn to love yourself.
5. If someone puts their hands on you, make sure they don't put their hands on someone else.
6. No is not. And if you don't say yes, it's also no. And if you were wearing a skirt, and you were groomed, it is also no. If you try to go on with your life despite fear, it is also no. If someone tries to make you guilty, the answer is no.
7. Any time of the day or night is good to say enough and end a stage of your life that you wish you had not lived.
8. I don't want to feel brave when I go out, I want to feel free.
9. My body doesn't want your opinion.
10. Break the silence. When you witness violence against women, do not stand idly by. Take action.
11. In the face of atrocities, we have to take sides. Silence stimulates the executioner.
12. Our men believe that making money and giving orders are the basis of power. They do not believe that power is in the hands of a woman who takes care of everyone during the day and gives birth.
13. The amount of clothing I wear does not determine the amount of respect I deserve.
14. Neither the earth nor women are the territories of conquest.
15. When women have power, they vastly improve the lives of everyone around them.
16. You are not alone, report we are free!
17. If he mistreats you, and you do nothing, you are letting him do it.
18. We all have a marked wound when a woman is abused.
19. You have to scream. Get out! Run out.
20. Wherever someone fights for his dignity, for equality, to be free, look him in the eye.
21. Silence is lethal in the mistreatment of women. Dare, be brave, and report the aggressor.
22. You have already been used, do not allow yourself to be dominated.
23. On the other end of the emergency phone, there is not only the end of the mistreatment. There is the life that you have stopped living.
24. If you are detained, insulted, attacked, beaten, or threatened, do not be confused. That's not loving.
25. Remember, it is not a private matter that you stay at home. Do not tolerate! Don't hide! Complaint.
26. Gender is between the ears and not between the legs.
27. True love for oneself and for others moves the world. Don't let them stop.
28. Violence is not just killing another. There is violence when we use a denigrating word when we make gestures to denigrate another person when we obey because there is fear. The violence is much more subtle, much deeper.
29. You can break my hand, but never my voice.
30. After all, women's fear of men's violence is the mirror of men's fear of fearless women.
31. Enough of minutes of fear, humiliation, pain, silence. We have the right that every minute be of freedom, of happiness, of love, of life. We want each other alive. All. Not one less.
32. Our passage through the world is so absurd and fleeting, that only knowing that I have been authentic, that I have managed to be as similar to myself as I can, leaves me calm.
33. No man is good enough to rule over any woman without her consent.
34. My life has value, my body has no price.
35. Being free is not just getting rid of your own chains, but living in a way that enhances and respects the freedom of others.
36. Of all the men in my life, none will be more than me. Of all the women in my life, none will be more than he.
37. Qualifying gender violence as a 'women's issue' is part of the problem. Five huge numbers of men are the perfect excuse not to pay attention.
38. This body is mine, it is not touched, it is not raped, it is not killed.
39. Well-behaved women rarely make history.
40. Even if you are not guilty of your problems, you are responsible for their solutions. Ask for help!
41. Do not give up, please do not give in, Although the cold burns, Although fear bites, Although the sun hides, And the wind is silent, There is still fire in your soul, There is still life in your dreams.
STORY:
"This happens to you for not giving me my firstborn, or any male child," said Santiago Di Carlo, after raping and beating her savagely and continuing to repeat the cycle.
"Please, Santiago, don't hurt me anymore," said Ana Lucía, with a weak voice and crying, because she could no longer bear the pain.
"So, keep all this in mind, before you give me the news that we will be parents, and you are not giving me the boy that I so yearn to have," Santiago said again, as he continued with the cycle of abuse and rape.
Santiago Di Carlo and Ana Lucía Santander, have been married for eight years and have four daughters and no boys and that has made Santiago furious, like a demon, with his wife, Ana Lucía, who does not waste a single moment, to mistreat her, insult her, beat her and rape her.
From centuries ago to the present, men have been obsessed with the idea of having firstborn; instead of women, because having women is synonymous with weakness, a little man, and not having the man who continues his legacy.
Santiago was no exception, and he got angry every time Ana Lucia did not give him the man he longed for. Both his hatred and his frustration, not having the desired firstborn, have considerably increased the beatings, mistreatment, insults, humiliation, and rape.
After leaving her weak and without strength, when he unloaded all his frustration on her, he left immensely happy, to drink with his friends, to forget the frustration he feels, not having the man he longed for.
While Santiago was drinking and having fun with his friends; on the other hand, Ana Lucia was doing what was humanly possible, to get out of bed, to go to the bathroom, because she wanted to bathe, to heal her wounds.
When he managed to get into the bathroom, he had a hard time turning on the shower faucet and getting into it. While she was bathing, she couldn't help but see her injuries and began to cry uncontrollably.
He was exactly one hour, in the bathroom, trying to bathe, because he was extremely weak. After an hour of bathing, he struggled out of the shower and with the same difficulty began to dry himself off.
When he managed to finish drying himself, he trudged to the place where the medicine cabinet was. Carefully, he took what he needed from the medicine cabinet so that he could heal.
After all his wounds had been healed, with equal difficulty, he began dressing and combing his hair. Ana Lucia had to wait half an hour to calm down, finish dressing and combing her hair, and putting on some slippers.
After that, she trudged down to the kitchen to prepare something to eat for her daughters.
"Mommy, why doesn't Daddy love us?" asked one of her daughters, while she was eating.
Ana Lucia did not know what to say about it. Deep down, Ana Lucía knew exactly the reasons why. Santiago did not love his daughters, and it is because they are women and for him, they are synonymous with weakness and synonymous with a little man.
"Daughters, your father does love you," said Ana Lucía, to calm her daughters.
"That's a lie! He does not love us, and that is why we have decided to live with our aunt Celeste "said the eldest daughter, who was upset.
Ana Lucía was going to say that they stay with her, but after what just happened, she ended up agreeing and immediately called her sister Celeste, who came with her children.
"Kids, why don't you go play upstairs and leave us to talk alone?" Celeste asked the children, in a calm and serene tone.
"How long are you going to allow this idiot to continue doing all this to you?" Celeste asked annoyed, while she looked carefully at the wounds of her sister Ana Lucia.
"I do not know, and I do not want to leave him, because I do not know how to survive without him, and for better or for worse, he is the father of my daughters and the man I chose as my husband," Ana Lucía concluded, very sad.
"You are stupid. Sister, he begins to love you and care more for you than for him and if it is for the welfare of my nieces, let me tell you that they do not love their father because he has shown an exaggerated feeling of hatred towards them.
What you are doing is simply making silly excuses, to "justify" their faults and their lack of love towards you. You do know that your "husband" in one of his drunks, raped his daughter and after that, threatened her that, if he said something to you, he would kill you and you, as always, defending him; instead of defending your daughters " Celeste finished saying, exploding with anger.
"No, none of that happened," Ana Lucia said simply, refusing to accept the truth.
"End by accepting this cruelty and once and for all. It can't be possible that you always justify that jerk. Until when do you plan to continue justifying it? " Celeste said indignantly, seeing her sister's reaction.
"Please, do not get angry with me. I didn't know about that. Now, I am going to punish my daughter, for not telling me the truth, "said Ana Lucía, looking for someone to blame for what happened.
"Don't be brute and react! I will not allow you to punish your daughter, because of that pig who does nothing but beat you and you, who allow it.
Furthermore, our brothers and sisters know about all this and are enraged and are looking for the cheapest tickets, to come and make that jerk pay for all this "Celeste finished saying, bursting with anger.
"I can't believe you told them the whole truth! Now, What am I going to do?" Ana Lucia said, her voice trembling.
"What you should have done from the beginning. Stop acting the weak who bears it all and stand up for yourself and your daughters, before it's too late! " Celeste ended up saying, looking for a solution to this problem.
"That is what I am going to do today. If something were to happen to me, I want you to take care of my daughters, please, and I beg you ", said Ana Lucía, fearing that the worst could happen today.
"Give notice to the police and put an end to this hell that is your life," Celeste told him.
They talked for half an hour more and after that, Celeste left, taking her children and nieces and leaving Ana Lucia, alone in the house, waiting for Santiago to arrive, to put an end to all this.
After two hours, Santiago arrived at the house, fuming, because he had been informed that Celeste was in his house and took the children.
"Ana, where are you?" Santiago asked, yelling at the top of his lungs, as he locked all the doors and windows in the house so that no one could enter the house without warning.
"Here I am. What do you want?" Ana Lucia asked, trying to control her nerves.
"Why the hell did Celeste come to my house without my authorization and take my daughters?" Santiago asked really annoyed.
"Your daughters? Since when are your daughters? You have always despised them, you have denied the love of a father and as if that were not enough, you raped our firstborn "said Ana Lucía, while she was raising her voice more and more.
"Our firstborn? They, like you, mean nothing to me and I demand that you call your nosy sister to bring the girls "said Santiago.
"I'm not going to do it," said Ana Lucía.
"Let's see if, after that, you keep thinking the same way," Santiago told her, as he ran to where Ana Lucía was, to hit her.
Ana Lucía, seeing that Santiago was approaching her quickly, began to run, to get away from him. While Santiago was chasing Ana Lucía, he was yelling at him "Damn it, when I catch you, you will know what it means that you don't have to challenge me"
Ana Lucia, started running like crazy, all over the house; while, Santiago was chasing her, and at the same time, he was cursing and shooting everywhere.
In one of the chases, Ana Lucía threw a stainless steel table at Santiago; which left Santiago unconscious, and thanks to that, Ana Lucía began to gain more time, running and moving away from Santiago.
When Santiago came to himself, he was more furious than before and made a panther, he began to run as if possessed in search of his wife and when he found her, the real fight began because both began to hit each other and throw things at the same time that shot up.
All the neighbors who had managed to hear those screams and the shots simply called the police and immediately came.
As much as the police knocked on the door, no one answered, because the two were in the middle of a fight. The fight lasted exactly two hours and at the end of those two hours, the two ended up dead.
When the police managed to enter, they found the lifeless bodies of Santiago and Ana Lucía. Police had no choice but to call forensics, who came quickly and did the respective autopsies and determined that the two died from multiple injuries and several broken bones.
Within half an hour, both families came, and by the time the police finished telling them the truth, they couldn't take it any longer and began to cry inconsolably.
As they could not agree on the custody of the girls, the two families went to trial, and after two weeks of trial, the girls stayed with Ana Lucía's family and Santiago's relatives, they had to pay for all the harm caused to the girls, and they were forbidden to have contact with them "