The Andibilia's Tale

"We, often, slip away, due to the absence of a decent aura."–Stephen Edoh.

I could recall to that moment, walking around a region blessed with black humus soil. It was a stunning tour for me to stroll around the beautiful hamlet covered with a blue sky. I know my joy inhabits in this lovely region. Since I felt happier, the glory is all to the top-notch Monarch of the universe.

I wouldn't agree to the saying that I was a nonnative because my ancestry shared profound linear chemistry with the denizens of this beautiful hamlet. Without a doubt, I'm a clan from the tribe of potent men; who brewed the light of a new dawn on the black humus soil; of which, inside of their veins and arteries, are found the dark red blood.

You'll be wondering about my tour to the beautiful hamlet. Besides, it was the will of the Celestial sovereignty that I stride through the horizons of this townlet.

Many often wonder why the certainty behind the nuptial scenes stays far from a reach. Unfortunately, they failed to sort out the puzzle behinds the "Andibilia's tale." I can sense the wanting for more. But you have to be concentrate because just scrutiny will pave the way for light to spark at the end of the tunnel.

Andibilia Hill is a tourist allure at the Oju city of Benue State, Nigeria. It is factual to infer that I came from a genealogy that shared profound chemistry with the inhabitants of this beautiful Hamlet, like I beforehand, stated

.

Just like Isaac expediting to disclose the God-ordained spouse of his, it was the same with me–coming to this stunning hill to meet with the jim-dandy of my life. Frankly inferring, location matters when the dealings of God's views are in the stand. This is one reason we must be at the right place to achieve the goals of God for our life.

You wouldn't have a second thought in this stunning hamlet except you aren't carried away. This is because everything here is charming. The burghers are set of outstanding and terrific people. A glimpse at them reminds you of the fact that they prevail like the trees planted by the riverside. Besides, I, too, was ploughed by the rivulets of Zion.

HER IDENTITY

Love is the reason for the expedition. It was a move to kick off the construction of a godly citadel. Yes, I would meet the woman that God preordained as my wife. She's my "Uleka," the delightful tune that will beautify my world. Hmm, it seems like the moment to mount up with wings has finally arrived. I got to soar, as does the Eagle.

At first gaze, the radiant of God's glory was all around her. It was a stunning moment for me because I couldn't resist standing in awe of her splendour. Without a doubt, I wasn't thinking of anything less, for the Bible clarified that "whosoever finds a wonderful woman as wife gets favour from the triune God." So true!

Her identity got me thinking. I felt perplexed; knowing not a clue to unravel the puzzle in front of me. Any other young man would have felt the same. Otherwise, the worst becomes the aftermath.

She put up with some charismatic smile. Her words are sweet in the ears and the belly. She's an intentional woman. Each time she walked into the room, her presence split forth a decent aura. Believe dear friends, she doesn't miss out on her target.

I've never seen a woman that takes one step as a time with success as the aftermath. I know her as a mother and as a friend. She shines brightly, like the ever arising sunset. Flash of vines and a warm embrace is what she loves most. Her steps as a time are pivotal to my uplift.

Truly, she cherished the colour Blue, for it details the beauty of the sky, and the colour black, for it speaks well of the fertile humus soil. She's from as Oju as her earthly location recalls. But as it is, she's a royal priesthood from Zion, a peculiar person and a joy to many breeds. Believe me, dear friends, she's a new every morning. Alas, she is a daughter to an Oracle of love.

When I was tasty, she was God's instrument of provision to my longing. Who is she? Many kept asking! I smiled and replied, "She is my best friend and a heavenly gift. Honestly, I feel like I was favoured because I've never imagined that anyone would tolerate my mistakes and appreciate my perfection. Only then, I recall, "He who finds an excellent woman in a wife gets a favour from God."

Gentleman, favour is decent and profitable. But it isn't cheap. It takes a working eye, functioning brains, and a good mind to find that God desired woman for you. Come to think of it, she was everything a man needs, and I found her. You might wonder if there are still outstanding women, truly, there are! But then, their identity has to be scrutinised, as does my Damsel from Oju.

Dear ladies, one truth I've to reveal is this, "no woman is a wife material until she's defined by a virtuous character." And to be honest, this is, without a doubt, the truth. Just imagine, if Uleka was a rascal and disrespectful kind, would she have ended up with me? Not! But it all transpires because virtuousness was her compass.

THE INTIMACY

There are people out there who are friends, co-workers, and mere acquaintance to us. But only a few are considered soulmates. You might have wondered at such actuality, but it is a fated fact that none can change. Without a doubt, we are familiar with the aforesaid.

When two people of the opposite gender come together, as the Bible said, they are no longer two but one. So true! Uleka is one, Owie is another. Love brings people together. And not money or some other things material. The bond formation of wealth can be crack by greed and the other factors of corruption. Unlike love, the aforesaid differs in all clarity.

Tolerance and Gratitude are factors of virtuousness that keep an intimacy thriving in life. It is sad how a lot of couples decline to pave the way for the aforementioned. Truly, wherever "Tolerance and Gratitude" prevail, peace, joy and progress become the aftermath. It might seem like the thought of illusion to you, dear reader, but it is the hidden truth.

Uleka, often, tolerates my wrongs each time, I err. Besides, we are all humans with flaws and blemishes. This, therefore, makes us open to mistakes and errs. None are perfect, but this isn't the same for many. They take people's mistakes personally. And this isn't a good thing for one who ought to discern the delightfulness of love.

Humans are designed to be creative and stunning; utilising the components of Nature to make life easier and stress-free. It is one thing to be average and another, creative. Those who are average struggles around the dunghills. But this differs from men of creativity. They are the missing factors foresaw at Silicon Valley.

One obvious fact is this: every mortal being desired the good things of life. Uleka do too! She appreciated my perfection at each instant; giving me a sound lift of total exhilaration. Believe me, damsels, when a lady expresses gratitude, it reimburses the good things of life back to her.

Every lady and gentleman must tolerate at each juncture of life. It is not true for one to infer the act of tolerance as a symptom of weakness. If a great number of folks sense it that way, then let the weak say "I am strong." Often, you could find two partners quarrelling, leading your thought to that which drives their intimacy. Believe me, dear friend, when love leads a relationship, its force wouldn't let the trials of life survive when attempting a plot against such an intimacy.

Most times, Uleka could be tired after a long hectic day lending me with the job of a chauffeur. But this doesn't mean I should start complaining because my meal wasn't ready. I often have to overlook to let love leads. Too, I show some care to her; making her understand that I love her more than thought. I discern no reason why a man should be angry at his wife over a missed meal. Honestly, many men are victims of this awful act, and it is killing their home.

Every intimacy will flourish when love leads. And when love leads, tolerance and gratitude become a usual actuality for all.

THE GOAL

Often, many think it's all about having a beautiful woman, perhaps a handsome man as a spouse that makes the difference. In between, some think "money" is the key factor. Truly, "Love is the major factor that drives marriage, eternally." Besides, the aforementioned plays a crucial and undeniable role.

Every person has a goal to achieve in time. It could be a personal goal, perhaps a family goal. But since we try to categorise them, they are all referred to as a goal.

Uleka and I didn't just become a couple because we wanted to have children, live a happy life, explore the Andibilia Hill, etc. No! We did because God has a goal to fulfil through us in this mortal sphere. We wouldn't want you to take the wrong steps, that is why we are trying to make you understand a few validities.

The Andibilia is beautiful, and it's full of glamour. One thing I like is the fact that it gives individuals with a decent and sensible aura. Always remember that only in a decent aura, one can fulfil his or her goals. The great monarch of the universe at all time desires good for us. It the reason He gave to man Nature to assist Him.

Raising a Godly Family in this very sphere is quite an arduous task. It is true after giving your life to Christ, a new journey beginning. But at this age, it differs in this sphere. I could find couples as most living a Holy life, but this differs in the lives of their children. And this isn't what God wants for us. He plans on giving us a decent end.

A Godly Citadel is a place where mighty men are raised. It is home of signs and wonders. The presence of God in a home detail the fact that such a place embraces His likeness and deeds. Dear Bachelor's and Spinsters, raising a godly home is a must, if you desire to thrive in this sphere. Remember, charity begins at home.

The aforesaid is also true for success. All these begin with our actions at home. How we relate and view things. Our love for God should be proof that we are godly and Christ-like people. Failing to raise a godly home as couples will not only destroy the family's excellent reputation but stunt their growth.

Finally, on God's goal for humanity is the fact that He wants us to be instruments of love. It is so Starling to infer how many people's lives for themselves alone, neglecting the hosts of others in needs. My dear friends, you are all called to be an envoy of love. Remember, love is the ultimate message of Christ. And that same love drove me down to the Andibilia where I met Uleka.

When we show love to people, we remind them of their worth and value. It is a pleasant thing to show care because it brings about a decent atmosphere. God loves those who express genuine love. He wants us to prevail as hope to people out there. And are you willing to be one of those who will touch the lives of many positively?

Dear bachelors and sisters, it is worthwhile to be an entity of love. In marriage, it shouldn't be a thing of family alone but to society. Besides, this isn't a message to the singles alone but all. We must let love leads before we lead our world.