The fourth game: Adapters for Emotional Balance.
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(1) The second factor corresponds to the bride and the third factor to the groom. Both of you should make a list of "100 things to love you all your life." When making this list, only one type of ink is used: blue. Let's look at two other variables: Red and Black.
(a) When the color blue is used in each list submitted by both the bride and groom. It is assumed that the marriage has been consummated. These lists will be referred to from now on: "Promises for Loving You Always". Both parties give their consent for the corresponding link between the two families; the delivery of the two lists to the head of the Sky family: it is constituted in a matrimonial will; henceforth the marriage counselors in these cases the friends of the bride and groom must take the respective lists to give support, direction and correction to the marriage in question. When it is necessary to ask for the lists, they notify Chief Sky that there are problems to be solved and that he will be informed of the solution, its implementation and the results.
(b) When the color red is used, it means nonconformity in a percentage of possible solution. Since it is 100 points. Points of shared conformity will be written in blue; and the points of nonconformity of the bride with red (these are the points to be dealt with with team 2, that of the bride); and the points of nonconformity of the groom are written in black (these are the points to be dealt with with team 3, the groom's).
(c) When the color black is used at 50% of the list; with two variables: (1) if the color of the other 50% is red: it means that it is the bride who is deliberating to withdraw from the relationship due to the 50 points in black indicated. Giving her hers 50 reasons for her marital incompatibility. (2) if the color of the other 50% is black: it means that it is the boyfriend who is deliberating to abandon the relationship due to the 50 points in black indicated. This decision is the most crucial of the ceremonies, since it includes certain traits of untimely and marital discredit. As if it were forbidding the bride; and it is a clear sign of authority of the man over the woman; If she is not going to constitute herself as a "suitable helper", she does not deserve such a boyfriend and consequently make such a marriage. The incompatibility is certified with this list, which is delivered to the Sky boss. And it constitutes a list of improvements to demand and implement and solve if possible; otherwise the daughter must remain single for life. It can be considered a sense of macho imposition in this determination, but both the man and the woman initiate this marriage holiday in mutual consent and pass filters like investigations to agree the union on parameters such as: sanctity, 'love filio' and family competence.
The fourth game: Adapters for Emotional Balance.
The histrionic custom of the Island is the management of tensions during the Sepak Takraw game, which in itself is a simulator to verify the character of the groom or the bride. As she behaves in competition and play, so will it be in her marriage and home.
1. Human Adapter: Man concord or discord of man.
For this, the team one that make it up:
(a) the bride's brother,
(b) a friend of the bride, and
(c) a friend of the groom,
Those mentioned must be in charge, rather than playing to win; it is trying to induce erratic behavior in the couple; of course not openly but the most subtle, the least noticeable; or in any case the most extreme. The good thing is to have charisma to make the opponent trust himself during the first five points of the 21 points that are required to win. They must provoke a reaction under pressure: patience or anger; which qualifies or disqualifies you.
Not to mention the triple skills: soccer, karate and rhythmic acrobatics, which the game requires, whose training leads to physical, emotional and character control.
The rhythmic acrobatics produces the presentation of the teams through a dance with acrobatic moments; after each point comes a routine of celebration that should denote grace, skill and originality. At the most celebrated moment at the end: that of the winner who celebrates, capturing the other opponents, is like a separate duel between the winning team and the defeated team.
The winning team: presents a routine that the other teams must imitate, in the case of not achieving they must pay a fine: a dinner, a gift desired by the bride, an expensive dress, among other special requests.
2. Natural adapters: herbs and plants.
A family recipe for adaptogens or herbs or mushrooms and plants, which can help with stress. During play or life itself. The most checked list is:
- 'Ginseng'. An herb with anti-inflammatory, antioxidant, and immunomodulatory properties. And to prevent: colds, diabetes, digestive problems, memory ...
- 'Rhodiola'. For headaches, anxiety and mild depression. Proven properties:
antioxidants and anticancer agents.
- 'Ashwagandha'. Plant with properties: anti-inflammatory and neuroprotective.
- 'Eleuthero'. With neuroprotective and stimulating effects on the immune system.
- 'Astragalus'. With anti-inflammatory, antioxidant, immune system stimulant and cardioprotective properties.
There is a kind of exchange of anti-stress routines; For this reason, the community made up of the spouses' families, friends and neighbors is summoned; so that, for a week, they allow themselves to participate in a cycle of tests, talks, and training on the use of these routines that the couple will use from now on to strengthen their relationship, which is for life.
This would be a rite loaded with interculturality and the exchange of legendary knowledge: in this case the groom is a native of Puerto Rico, while the natural bride is from the Philippines. Both countries and localities of origin are Islands in the continent of America (Central America) and in the continent of Asia.
A marriage of these magnitudes is a sample of harmony, dominion of nature and of eternal communion with creation and with the omniscient and omnipotent Creator.