LAKE OF MY HEART – CHAPTER 21
He intended to pay Naomi’s customary bridal price within weeks after his surprise engagement party. A week before the party he hadn’t known that he was going to ‘pop’ the question. After the bridal price payment they had to wait for a wedding four to six months in time. That was what they had agreed on. This was traditional, customary and cultural for all of them.
There was a lot of haggling. It wasn’t done in the open market only. It was not a one man one woman band. It involved his parents and their in laws with a lot of discussion and negotiations before and after payment of the bridal price. Discussions before and after where in different categories as per custom.