Neil, on the other hand, was an absolute sweetheart, showed interest in the things that Austin liked and tried to get involved in them, loved dogs, had a respectable career where he worked with his hands, and clearly Austin had some form of romantic or sexual attraction to him or both. Would Austin have developed a crush on a woman if he had married someone like that? It was tough to say, but the answer was important to Austin. If there was something lacking in his current marriage, he wanted to plug that hole before the dam broke.