Chapter 3

“It’s almost ready,” I promise, extracting myself from his

embrace.

* * * *

My parents always called Jim Betty’s

friend, right up until the day she got married to someone else.

By then the two of us had an apartment together, and at the

reception my mother introduced us as simply, “Henry and Jim.” Not

friendor roommate, just Jim—in those days, no one

felt compelled to define us further. My mother treated him like one

of the family when we visited, and that was all I wanted. Let her

believe we slept in separate bedrooms, if that’s what she needed to

think to welcome him into her home.

We bought this house in ’64; the market was

good and the realtor didn’t question both our names on the

mortgage. Jim was in college at the time, working nights at the

packing plant just to pay his half of the bills. We had plans for

the house—I wanted a large garden and Jim loved to swim, but we

didn’t have the extra money to sink into landscaping yet; we