Well you see, from what Rahim told me, your dad actually got married to his mom when he was in Kaduna for two years, he had business there so I normally go down there to just visit, it was after we had your brother and I was finding it hard to have another child even though I was still very young at the time,you father and I, we were very much in love then." I couldn't help but notice the 'then' as in past.