types of yanderes

A/n : before you procced further this point i need to tell about different kinds of yanderes

so that normal people can understand them

Yandere

Yandere girls are what one would call crazy girls. No, I don't mean like dorky or stunt-loving girls, I mean the batshit psychotic jealous bitch that you'll murder your entire family and your dog just to stay with you.

Literally.

A yandere sees everyone surrounding the guy as if they're going after the guy, be it male or female, and she will actually attack people to get what she wants, in some cases gorily so, in other cases just name-calling or hiding their possessions somewhere or whatever.

Many yandere are introduced as looking normal and cute. Lovable. Extremely sympathetic. But that's often because they're only shown interacting with their love interest. Once a third characters gets into the equation she starts showing her true colors. That is, an yandere character starts crazy, she doesn't go crazy, she was crazy from the beginning but nobody knew.

Note that the above isn't necessarily true. Some yandere are undeniably nuts from the start. Why a yandere has become insane can vary: she might be a broken victim of some horrible event, or she might simply have a natural inclination to become a serial killer. In any case, as long as she has a mentally sick kind of love she's a yandere.

(the most common type of yandere is violent and jealous, but there are other types of yandere written further below)

Types of Yandere

In the west, yandere is basically always associated with the jealous, violent type of yandere, which is the most common. However, given that the word just means "mentally sick and in love," there are other types of yandere which would be recognized only in the Japanese speaking community.

Because they're just Japanese nouns followed by the suffix gata , meaning "model," as in "[car] model." So where one would say "a XXX-ing yandere" in English to say what the yandere does, in Japanese there's a noun for that, so it becomes XXX-gata yandere, "yandere of type XXX."

A single yandere can (and normally will) fit in multiple of these types at a time. In particular, Yuno Gasai fits a dozen of them, which is why she's an ideal example of yandere.

All types of yandere can be male or female, straight, gay, lesbian, etc. but the descriptions below assume a female yandere and that "you" are their male victim love interest;

Anyway, here's the list:

Harmless type.

"As long as he's happy, I'm happy."

The most harmless type of yandere, the one where she's fallen in love in an unhealthy, obsessive way, but she doesn't do anything insane about it. She'll try hard to become your girl, but won't harm anybody in the way. If you get a girlfriend, she won't attack you two, she'll be happy you found happiness, and maybe still have hope that you choose her in the end.

Typically the good yandere that everyone needs 8 out of 10

Wrong idea type.

"He gave me an eraser... this must mean he loves me!"

She gets the wrong idea when you do something in order to match her expectations. If you say you don't love her, she'll think you're lying because of you don't want to hurt her or something. If you do something out of kindness to her, she'll think it's out of love. And so on.

I don't get why many stories use this type of yandere girls , they are lame and bitchy compared to other type of yanderes , 5 out of 10

Obsession type.

"I sent you 50 messages, why didn't you answer? Where were you? What were you doing?"

Tries to learn everything about you. Personal info, hobbies, routine, etc. Sends regular messages to check on you, asks why you haven't answered if you didn't, wants to know what you're doing always. All the time. And, if possible, walks around with you all the time too.

The obsession type doesn't necessarily want to monopolize you. She'll let you hang around with friends, etc. but wants to know everything you do. She probably wants to go with you, too. If she can't go somewhere with you, she might stalk you.

If she learns a girl is too close to you, she might attack.

I don't get why many stories use this type of yandere girls just lie the wrong idea type girls , they are lame and bitchy and evil compared to other type of yanderes , 4 out of 10

Stalker type.

Follows you around, often without you knowing. May be in broad daylight or at night, when you're walking alone on the streets. Maybe even online. A girl of this type is also often of the obsessive type.

Listen here people stalking a person isn't good regardless of gender , 5 out of 10

Monopoly type. (This is the most common type.)

"Who is that person you were talking to?"

She wants to monopolize you. Will ask who you talk to and hang with, in extreme cases won't let you be with anyone else, not even your friends.

This type of behavior is unfortunately common in real life. It displays insecurities and lack of trust in the relationship which might develop into much worse yandere behavior.

The worst yandere type , only idiots love her 1 out of 10 , that too for their intellect

Dependence type.

("dependence" as in addiction, alcohol dependence, chemical, etc.)

"No, don't leave me! Please! I can't live without you!"

Can't live without you. Begs you to not leave her/throw her away. Says she will die if you go away. May lose will to do anything if you aren't watching. If you do leave, she might go full crazy and end up doing something crazy like going on a murderous rampage or something.

Now this is what i call good yandere ,7 out 10

touei-gata

Projection type.

"You're just like him"

After her former love turned out to be a completely different person than she loved, or got a girlfriend, or died, or something like that, and she can no longer stay with him, she searched for someone who was just like what her love was, and she found you.

This type of of yandere is very innocent at first, but if she's given power to dominate her new beloved, she might end up trying to make him more and more like what her old interest was. For example, wearing the same things, doing the same things, etc.

Sometimes, she might project her ideal lover not on someone else but on same guy. That is, she might say "you are not him, he does this," to you even though you actually are him and you don't do "this."

aviod this kind of people , they exist in real life too and are delusional , 2 out of 10

Disappearance type.

(This has nothing to do with Haruhi Suzumiya)

"He will never love someone like me... why exist?"

She loves you, maybe you know that, maybe you don't, but unknown this gives her a crushing depression. She think you'll never love her and she has no chance, but she can't stop her unhealthy feelings of love. She thinks you're too good for her, or that she's too worthless for you. This makes her slowly fade away, disappear from your life. Until she completely disappears forever (kills herself).

This is an atypical yandere since it has so little effect on other characters' lives.

I feel bad for this yandere

8 out of 10 , don't die Disappearance type. yandere chan

shuumatsu-gata

Final type.

("final" as in "the end," not as in "final form" or "final fantasy" whatever that final means)

"I don't need a world where he doesn't exist."

After learning you died, she loses purposes in life. The world for her was you, and you're now gone. What this results vary. Most of the time, she becomes broken emotionally, as expected. She might also kill herself. Or, sometimes, she might become a terrorist and destroy the world that let you die, or just go on revenge serial killing or something."

Basically nagito komeda in sdr2 or joker or harley queen'

9 out of 10 , one of the best yandere

Domestic Violence type.

"It hurts? That's your fault! Next time learn your lesson and stop looking at other girls!"

When jealous, feeling ignored, etc. uses violence against you. She'll beat you and say it's your fault. This can be either discharging pent-up rage through violence and you just happen to be her favorite punching bag, or deliberately punishing you for doing something she didn't like.

Both cases, unfortunately, are also common in real life.

avoid these types too , even machochists should avoid them

0 out of 10 , abuse is painful

Violence type.

Another name for the "domestic violence" type above.

She "uses violence" (bouryoku wo furu ) toward you.

avoid these types too , even machochists should avoid them , abuse is not good for both genderes , I don't get why people like them

0 out of 10 , abuse is painful

sokubaku-gata

Restraints type.

"Let's stay together forever! You'll never leave my side, not ever again!"

She wants to be with you always, and always, and always, AND ALWAYS, AND ALWAYS. And that means she'll probably kidnap you and lock you into her house so you're forced to stay with her.

There are variations, some lighter, some worse, but the general idea is that she wants you two to be inseparable.

note : kill yourself if this yandere caught you or kill yourself by biting your tongue

0 out of 10 , never love this type of girls

mousou-gata

Delusion type.

Similar to the "wrong idea" type above, but far worse.

When her insane love is unrequited (for obvious reasons), and you start literally running away from the crazy bitch, she'll think it's because you're embarrassed, and not because you don't want her. Her love distorts the reality she perceives. She sees a bunch of delusions instead.

The delusion type may also be in denial something unpleasant happened. She'll just forget it happened. Her memories may also be replaced with delusions: she'll remember you being extremely nice to her when you were indifferent, you saying you liked her before you even met, or other girls rubbing themselves on you like cheap sluts when all they did was saying "good morning"

Bascially a idiot yandere who has schizophernia , 6 out of 10 - I feel pity for this girl too

jishou-gata

Self-harm type

"Hey... look at me... look at me... look, there's so much blood coming out..."

She harms herself, cutting wrists, etc. in order to get your attention. This often happens when she's ignored. The "dependence" type might evolve into this if she is abandoned.

There are two sub-types to this.

First, the one where she harms herself in secret and has you notice her injuries, then she says "it's nothing to worry about" hoping you worry about it more. This is usually something light like a knee bruise, etc.

Second, the one where she harms herself in your face as a way to say "I'll kill myself if you leave me," forcing you to stay by her side by guilt.

7 out of 10 - feel sad for them , but anyway they're yandere , we shouldn't sympthise them

haijo-gata

Removal type.

"You don't need other people. You have me."

She will remove from your life everyone she thinks you don't need. Which means everyone else. This can include things like excluding your contacts and messages to even murdering everybody who approaches.

This type of yandere has two sub-types:

First, the one that removes people secretly. She sees you hanging with a girl, the next day that girl has mysteriously disappeared. You, a main character, are probably as clueless as a sheet of sudoku in blank about this incident, and the next several incidents like it.

Second, the one that removes people openly. This also ranges from removing messages to killing people. She might be expecting you agree with her, "yeah, you're right, I don't need other people," or she might just want to show you what she's capable of.

one word , kill her before she kills you, never show sympathy to any yandere

3 out of 10

shinjuu-gata

Double Suicide Type

"Let's die together!"

Why be always together in life if you can be forever together for all eternity? This type of yandere will propose what no sane person would: let's die!

Sadly, suicide pacts are a thing. Double suicide, lovers' suicide, too, is a thing. One of the most famous pieces ever, Romeo & Juliet, (spoilers) sort of ended up in a double suicide.

One thing different in an yandere double suicide is that, often, you don't really want to suicide. It's more like she wants you both dead and she'll kill you then herself. Although there are also actual consensual attempted double suicides involving yandere.

Basially dazai from bungo stray dogs

avoid these 0 out of 10

jiko-gisei-gata

Self-Sacrifice type.

"If it's for you I wouldn't mind dying!"

She'd make any sacrifice for you, as long as it means getting you to love her. She doesn't even mind dying for you or fighting bloody battles, sustaining multiple injuries, etc. as long as it means staying with you.

Unlike the self-harm type, the self-sacrifice type isn't seeking attention with her suicidal behavior. Instead, she wants to make herself useful and support the one she loves.

This is easier to visualize in anime where fighting monsters, etc. is normal. However, this kind of sickness also exists in real life. Some people do sacrifice themselves for a beloved one in an extremely unhealthy and unrewarding way, just because they "love" them.

one of the best yandere girls to ever exist , take her at all costs

9 out of 10

suuhai-gata

Worship type.

"I'll do anything for you! I'll even kill for you! Please use me however you want!"

She worships you and will do anything for you. Sometimes even without you asking. And more: she doesn't even mind if you love her or not, or what will happen to her. Killing, dying, committing crimes, losing respect of others, she'll do anything it means providing support to your infinite greatness.

This is one of the least-harmful type of yandere since she would never do anything to harm you and will never be in your way. Nonetheless, it's also one of the most depressing types; it makes you feel sorry for the yandere, who thinks of herself less like a person and more like a tool who might get thrown away if she's not useful enough.

The difference between the "worship" type and the "self-sacrifice" type is that the "worship" type is also like the "disappearance" type. The "self-sacrifice" type wants to be useful so she can be loved, the "worship" type doesn't mind if she is not loved back, in fact, she probably thinks she is not worth being loved by the delusive greatness she considers you.

She wouldn't, for example, attack your girlfriend or other girls out of jealousy, but she might attack a girl approaching you because she thinks the girl is stepping out of her boundaries and being presumptuous by daring talk to your greatness without proper respect.

the best yandere to ever exists , if you find these type of girls , NEVER LEAVE THIS GIRLS , they are gems in society , best waifu

10 out of 10

choukyou-gata

Training type.

"Say you love me... come on, say it. Say you love me. SAY YOU LOVE ME! Good boy! Here's your reward."

(the word choukyou was once only about "training [animals]" or "breaking [animals]." In modern times, it's also used in BDSM contexts, "[master] training [slave]." It has nothing to do with training for sports.)

She'll break you into loving her. Sometimes using torture, a punishment/reward system, brainwashing, etc. This probably involves you getting kidnapped and forced into it, although there might be more subtle ways to accomplish this.

one word kill her or kill yourself , no other options

0 out of 10 , abusive yandere

koritsu yuudou-gata

Loneliness Induction type.

"Shhh... it's ok. I'm here. You don't need anyone else. You can just count on me."

She will make, induce, you to feel or be alone. By spreading malicious rumors about you that make others alienate you, by murdering your friends and family, etc. Then she'll jump in and present herself as the only one you can count on when you're most fragile mentally and in need of company.

Inducing things that don't make you feel lonely but give some sort of mental damage, trauma, also count as this type. Conversely, if your friends and family get killed on their own and you're alone but she had nothing to do with it, it's not the same thing since she didn't induce it, although an yandere might abuse your condition to get closer to you.

This type is similar to the "dependence" type, except it's not the yandere that's to become dependent on you, it's you that's to become dependent on the yandere.

note : the worst yandere

0 out of 10 , abusive yandere , no options for you

kyouki-gata

Bizarre-Seeking Type.

"I love you, so... can you give me your fingernails? I want them so I can always have a part of you with me!"

Undeniably the worst type of yandere, she will murder you, and not by accident, not by jealousy, not by revenge. She will murder you because she loves you. And then she'll keep your rotting corpse on bed or preserved inside a glass because there's no way she'd throw you away.

In a sense sane people are better off not even trying to understand, the bizarre-seeking type of yandere is purely insane, mad way beyond explanation.

The word kyouki, used in the type's name, is normally associated with disturbing imagery involving gore, blood and worse stuff. It's also related to "grotesque" art, guro , which's dubbed "pornography involving gore" despite the fact nobody in their sane mind can figure out how the f*ck can someone even "fap to this."

Likewise, nobody in their sane mind can relate to the grotesque love of bizarre-seeking yandere. Ranging from murder, mutilation, and maybe something ever worse us mere mortals can't even begin to imagine, their bizarre displays of love can only be summed up by: "what the actual f*ck?"

So to sum up all this, a yandere is a person who in the pursuit of "love" ends up hurting her/himself and/or the one who loves and sometimes the people who surround her/him. It does not necessarily end in death but possibly in big psychological damage, trauma or a least a sad memory... :cry:

A yandere can't handle a relationship in a "normal" way or approach the one they love without hurting one of the parts. Maybe they even have good social skills or even try to do things the loved one likes or share activities to please them, but in the end, their egoism or lack of self-love ruins everything. :sweat:

I personally didn't know a lot of types of yanderes, the more known are those who are ill jealous, or violent, but now I know that there are also who hurts themselves and you don't even notice that. :astonished:

Which are your favorite ones? :smile: And your hated ones?

I like the ones that try to please their lover like the Harmless, Self Sacrifice and Worship types. Other times I like a more violent one like Wrong Idea, Obsession and even Restraints type :kiss:

On the other hand I really hate DV, Violence, Removal, Doble Suicide and Bizarre Sinking types. Maybe there are others that are potentially harmful as those but maybe there's still a solution to their sickness or to their actions (if you act in time). :unamused:

Special yandere type

Kannade : Aviod this abomination at all costs , she is a degenerate that makes you feel disgusted breathing the same air as her , the abomination makes yuno gasai looks like a nun , Not even a machochist would feel no pleasure

if you find this girl , hope you feel no emotions or you will receive severe hell , even being in hell and a monster is more friendly than this girl

I warn you completely , AVIOD THIS GIRL AT ALL COSTS , DON'T BE FOOLED BY APPERANCE , cute little things are evil

Even yandere have standards but this abomination doesn't