"I don't wanna go," he sobbed. He didn't understand anything apart from the fact that his grandfather had just killed his father.
He didn't want to leave his parents, he didn't wanna live with a man who had killed his father.
"Honey, do you remember last week when you and dad were helping me in the garden, there was a rock which we couldn't move so your dad had to bring the big hammer to break it into pieces?" When Andrew nodded, Lisa remarked, "He did that because only the hammer could break the rock and nothing else."
"Now I want you to listen to me very carefully Andrew and I want you to always remember this." She pulled him closer. "Your grandfather is the rock, and I want you to become the hammer because only then will you be able to break him into tiny pieces and live your life the way you want to."