The decision

It all occurred just when I recognize and accept this - I don't understand how to behave with ladies I like. And the awareness of this came behind that I wished however had its own factors.

Considering that the academic year, like many teenagers, I was interested in girls. Although, to tell the truth, they paid more attention to me than the other way around. And that's typical for people of a certain age. I wouldn't say that I prevented contact with my female peers, but that I considered them simply as friends, along with the male peers. Years passed, and at a time when many of my friends began to move into, so to speak, a varied level of interaction with women, by contrast, I began to move away from it. The sport engraved me completely. Day and night, I imagined the career of a field hockey player and was not interested in anything else. I thought all those relationships were unnecessary and time-consuming. Now I understand that I was wrong. The relationship between a boy and a girl, a man and a woman, is our nature, actually we have been developed that way. Whether it is an innocent flirtation or sexual desire - this is very crucial. It is necessary not only in the present, but also in the future, when you choose to develop your family.

I achieved my goal, and thanks to an athletic scholarship, I got into college. I continued to play and get pleasure from everything. I met a woman, we spent 3 years together. In truth, the beginning of our relationship was her benefit. Especially I did not make any effort to our relations, it was good and above all, easy. Nearby was a beautiful woman I liked, and I, in turn, loved her.

The profession of a sportsman for some factors was coming to an end, along with the study at the university, and it was time to think about the future. Next to me was the same woman I progressively felt we would be together until the end of life.

And this will be difficult to live with ...

Moving away from everything that happened I decided I chose I did not want the desire to look for the girl who is the only one, but nevertheless, it would be better to try to interact communicating all that I like. I was a good apprentice in college, I had a good sports record, in the end, I lived 3 years with a lady. I felt like a normal man and I'm worthy of a lot of girls I like.

And at that time, I decided for myself. I wanted to understand the nature of women and understand what they want from guys, and in the end, it was essential for me what kind of male they want!

I advanced a lot in the way of relationships with females, through many experiments, but at the same time, and thanks to the constant progress, I understood how I was wrong about the psychology of ladies when I was younger, and at the time when I had a woman. How many things I didn't know and understand would help me everywhere in life, not just in seducing beauties.

My dating skills were so small that at first, I found it distasteful to even think about the possibility of simply approaching a beautiful girl, and getting to know her. There were days when I got acquainted with more than 50 girls ...

Step of action, I reached a level when I began to enjoy the satisfaction of the pleasure of communication pleasure from girl´s interaction. The fact that from a total absolutely no, I ended up being a male, who can talk to almost any lady, a man, who could, if he wanted to fuck a new girl every day, and a male who interacts with the ladies quickly and with satisfaction, says that I have accumulated some experience, which I am happy to share with.

To help you, my friends, I have summarized my experience into 8 fundamental principles for dating and seducing women. 8 things, with which you will certainly accelerate your method to becoming a confident and attractive man to women.

1. Don't hide your intentions.

Most of my life, I felt a little awkward and shy when it came to dating girls. I thought it was an awkward procedure that I imposed on the individual, and because of my desire to approach even an unknown lady. I felt a little embarrassed. I was embarrassed to show a lady I like, to reveal my libido. In the rare moments when I still met women, I would say to myself, "I'm just going to talk to her", and we would just talk, she would talk to me about herself, I would talk about me, that's all, absolutely nothing else! Besides, I was shy, insecure, and I often just listened to the woman, only once in a while I would ask about something. Once I made up my mind, and started to deal with yourself, to get out of your comfort zone (check it out a bit more), and to get the first results, I realized that women don't like it when you are hesitant, closed, and they have no idea what your motives are. This triggers negative suspicions.

I realized that, to some extent, women like it when you reveal that you understand what you want. Obviously, you don't have to speak directly (at the very least at the beginning of your relationships) "I would like to fuck you perfectly", but denying it, at least to yourself, is essentially a mistake, my friend! After approaching the girl with the intention of "just talking", you program your mind, and your brain on this! And talking to her, you will still be an interlocutor, a cool and sweet guy, however that she does not need it! Think of me, she has enough! Who she wants, so it is a man! And when you do not reject, at least, to ourselves that she is attractive, and you came to her, because you are sexually attracted to her, you will unconsciously behave like a genuine male! And think of me, she will feel it, and that's enough! Now I can talk about any topic, and behave as I want, however, finally, I know that only one thing matters - whether she felt in you the male, masculinity, or not. So do not be afraid to show that she is attractive to you, because you are a male, you are a leader, and you establish a vector of your relationship more! Make things easier, folks, don't complicate things.

Many useful ideas: keep strong eye contact, don't hesitate the opportunity to touch her carefully, flirt with her, smile with her - it will offer her the feeling that she is attractive to you, that you desire her as a woman! And the sooner she feels it, the simpler the important things will be! Naturally, suppose she is currently in a long-term relationship, or something similar to this. In that case, she will most likely decline your intentions (however not the truth) and absolutely nothing will occur. But if she is free, and sees you as an intriguing and sufficient male who knows what she desires, and at the same time provided her the feeling that you desire her, then, in such a circumstance, she is very likely to offer you the opportunity to act!

2. Do not be attached to the result! Do not let her rejection hurt you.

Let's say you really like a girl, you desire her, you imagine various situations, what you will do, etc. You wish that your liking is shared, and this girl likes you too. This is the way it is, which is fine. It is a natural human desire. As quickly as you fall in love with some kind of beauty, and you have the desire to like her - you are a captive of circumstance. You start to adapt to the lady and start to agree with her in everything (as I did), and therefore you lose your rod, your reality and your Self. And in such a situation, with taking a negative response, I keep in mind that I was distressed, I started to blame myself. What does everything - my fault. That failure - an indication that I was not good enough. And this emotional attachment to the result, positive feedback, and the thirst to be liked was a no no for me, and I'm sure, it stops many men. It makes you abnormal, by your attempt to be lovable to her - you get her to feel her supremacy. She wants to feel supremacy from you, from the male. Females like males to decide and be determined with them.

Appropriately, what helped me a lot, and with what I want to share with you, is to accept this simple truth - that around you - many women, just a huge number. And you have an unlimited number of attempts. If it did not work with the one, you can constantly try another. Because, look, you can get up now, go out, see a pretty woman - and get acquainted with it. If something fails - you can walk 50 meters, and get acquainted with the other lady. And so on to infinity. Being attached to someone and anguish over a failure with someone is very stupid in a scenario where you can always try again. A new attempt - the best effort, because in it you will be with the experience of their previous failures, respectively, can make better decisions, and behave more adequately. Do not connect with the result, showgirl - you like it, however, at the same time, mentally, you are absolutely sure of yourself, and your response can not hurt anyway.She should not feel like a reward! At any time, you can escape from her, to the better lady. Do not forget this!

3. Be natural and do not expect a reaction from her.

As before, when I had very little communication with the ladies, when I was in a group of people and started a conversation with some unknown or even unidentified girl, I acted very abnormally. I would talk about nonsense, keep talking about whatever she wanted, even those topics I was not interested in, laugh at her jokes, even when I did not understand their meaning, and in the basics, I did not reveal at all what I was worth, nor who I was.

By this, I do not want to say that you can, you justify your shyness, shyness and modesty in dealing with girls. If I want to talk about fishing, I like it - I'm talking to a lady about fishing and do not think she likes it. If I wish to touch her, I immediately do it if I really all the best I want.

I want to offer you a task that will help you become more natural in dealing with the ladies: the next time, when handling a woman, not very close to you (I mean, not a sister, or friend) tell her about your most recent achievement in your hobby (in extreme cases, in your task), for example, that you finally completed your first solo rap, or painted a picture, which actually has painted a long time. There is only one condition: you have to talk about it as you told your best friend. Don't adapt to it! Speak freely. Try it, her answer should surprise you!

4. Words don't matter.

I've hardly ever used a weapon as effective as humor in dealing with women. Women - are more emotional and men-sensitive. In my experience, I will state that the most important thing is to make the girl understand that you are:

Mentally adequate, in the basics.

That being with you is comfortable and safe.

That you are confident in your words and actions.

To practice, set yourself a goal this week to talk to 5 ladies about some garbage (you can select a topic yourself) in 5 minutes. You can save a series of questions on this topic in advance to look confident and not embarrass yourself. The main rule - look at her eyes, and speak loudly and legibly, with confidence in the voice. I bet that after this exercise, you will accurately understand all that I have composed above:-RRB-.

5. Don't be afraid of a new experience, practice your skills on any woman, and be the ultimate socialite.

One of the first jobs I have done to myself after deciding to alter my life by learning how to talk and easily seduce a lady is a task of typically widening my circle of women I communicate with. I slowly started talking to everyone: a cashier at McDonald's, a cleaning lady at the mall, unknown women on public transportation! Gradually I became more positive and could ask the checkout girl how she was doing, and later I started complimenting them!

I started communicating not only with women I find outwardly attractive. At the first opportunity, I would start arguing with absolutely any lady! Therefore, I gained experience in communicating with totally different ladies: active, modest, bold. When you are rejected by a woman who doesn't particularly think about you, you accept it and you are not disappointed, right? However, when you are rejected by a woman you like, you feel bad. And this is common. I discovered a method to respond calmly to any objections from girls I like definitely - put myself in various silly scenarios with lots of girls I don't like! I learned to definitely do idiotic and ridiculous things in front of the girl of my dreams, definitely feeling confident! After all, before that, I took several responses from ladies I was not interested in, and after that, that experience I received from those scenarios, I used in the actual "fight"! I hope, my friend, that you understood my idea, and that you understand that communication with several individuals, even with several males, about different topics makes you more lighthearted, positive and interesting! This experience makes you an intriguing person. Women will sense your lightness, ease and will want to immerse themselves in your social world, where everything is easy and fun! Therefore, go out on the street and interact with everyone, do not be afraid of new experiences and feelings! It will only help you!

6. Get rid of social pressure! Don't be afraid to lose!

In the beginning, when I decided to alter myself, to end up being more positive and relaxed in interacting with ladies, I could not, trivially, take the initial step, and was always looking for the most ideal opportunity to approach and familiarize myself. I aspired to capture the minute we were alone, or when she was without her paramours. I was afraid to perform in public places because I believed that everyone around would witness my failure in case I failed. Public opinion oppressed me, and I could not get away from the thought that when one satisfies a woman, everyone looks at us, and expects my failure. A friend, to be honest, I don't have a magic method or guide, which will immediately free you from the worry of losing. In fact, awareness that to everyone, just to spit on you and your actions, belonged to me after hundreds of associates with the ladies. I will try to describe to you the psychology that I have now, and that, perhaps, will help you a lot in dating ladies. Think about the scenario that you are standing in line at the supermarket, and you really liked the girl standing 2 meters away from you. She is alone, however there are a lot of individuals around you, you are standing in line, everybody will hear what you are going to talk about.

Think, although it's highly unlikely, however what she will say to you, "Man, back off, you're not my type!". Not every woman you approach deserves you, macho man. You're a free guy, you're in a free country, and if a man desires to get acquainted with a woman - this is definitely typical, and any sufficient person will take it as a truth.

And ... to achieve ease and comfort in dating with women, I had to consume more than a spoonful of shit, dude. I made my experience slowly, step by step. And what I'm grateful for is that I didn't look at dating as black and white in my practice. I wasn't categorical in saying that if the date ended in sex - it's a success, and if she didn't even give out her phone number - it's a total failure. Not at all. I appreciated and rejoiced in every step and every new experience. After many negative responses, I internally accepted this as part of the process. When you figure something out, let's say to drive a car, you don't get everything right, do you? You get stuck, you can mix up the pedals, but if you have a goal - in the end, it's easy and confident to drive a car and a truck, you don't take note of it, however, you just try to go further! Absolutely everything is also about the art of seduction, friend. To some extent, you must internally maintain and accept the reality that she may decline you. That she may have a type, have a bad mood or something else. In general, you must accept something that you will not be familiar with. And the crucial thing is that just when you accept this, and keep in mind the reality you may lose - you begin to succeed! You absolve yourself of this obligation, that you definitely have to meet her, and fuck her. It becomes much easier for you; you are not tied, she sees that you are not tied to the result, and knowledge for you is a regular thing, and you do not connect great importance to it. You can lose, I can lose, and so is everything in life, not only with ladies. So what, is it worth to be afraid of it? Of course not, it's worth acting, gaining new experience, and being more confident! And after that the vehicle will exactly turn on and go quickly and confidently!

7. Focus on the successes, not the failures. Delight in the process and be positive.

One of the concepts that can amplify the impact of your dates with women is a positive frame of mind. If I set myself the task to meet during the day 20 women (although I have not set myself such tasks for a long time), and 15 simply refuse me, 4 simply offer me a phone, and only one goes on a date with me and in the end we get laid, it's fantastic! In my own experience, I can say that the focus only on one's actions and efforts leads to progress!

If she says that I am the last goat on this planet, I will just smile at her and tell her that a couple of them are worse, but I have every chance to overcome them! If she claims I have a ridiculous hairstyle, I will laugh, and claim that I have actually been doing this hairstyle for an hour and a half and consider it the most fucked up of my hairstyles. So, friend, I point out to you that you should not meet unfamiliar women as something dreadful and full of stress!

A couple of helpful hints: hyperbolize criticism and any objections from ladies. Yes, to some extent, this may be a bit unnatural at first, but it will quickly instill emotional stability in you, you will not connect importance to their objections, and you will be able to maintain your positive attitude under any situation.

8. Go all the way! Determination is the key to success with women.

Of all these concepts, this, in my opinion, is the closest to the magic tablet you have treasured. Of course, this too is worth working for; it doesn't come in a day or so. But this is precisely what every male can do, and what really pleases the ladies, interests them, and eventually, lie in their bed. This is determination. The capacity to hold his position, his desire and bring it to a woman's mind in any way. This is the ability to not respond to resistance, to decline or resist. Of course, when I had little experience, even at the earliest stage, I was not persistent in learning more about women when I parted with my precious girlfriend. I understood that this was essential, but all my attempts were more demanding, and it seemed more painful than insistent. And I want to share with you, my friends, a crucial difference. Being consistent is clearly understanding what you want, bringing it to the woman's consciousness, and letting her know that it will happen, one way or another, however it will happen. This is the ability to listen to a woman and understand her position, yet competently construct her behavior and show her that your scenario is most pleasing and successful for her! This surprises ladies, internally, many women do not wish to choose anything, they wish to be directed, they want the guy to have everything under control. This awareness in her head that you know the plan, and you are constantly going on it, bypassing - any barriers - they actually like it, because of this, she knows that it will be calm and positive with you. Unlike the state of demand, when you reveal that you require something from the lady, and just stupidly ask her about it, I have noticed that ladies are more prone to guys who can present those desires to the lady as one of the options of event development, and as a rule, the most pleasant for both of you! So do not ask the lady "Come to my house", it is better to inform her "I am planning to prepare a duck with oranges today. I'm going to buy white wine, and besides I have grapes brought from Greece, come to dinner with me". Then the girl herself will agree with the desire for your advancement of events.

Naturally, my friend, you can say that this is a challenge. And I agree with you. Being relentless and uncompromising with every female is really hard, and it takes a lot of practice. But since I've mentioned the magic pill, I want to tell you what needs to be done to make the same persistence manifest itself in you more often. And this suggestion seems to be the following "Try to push through to the end". That is, my friend, try not to limit yourself to the lighter stage. When I first started meeting women, I usually limited myself to a half-minute conversation, asked for her contact number, and promptly said goodbye and ran away. Even when I didn't have any other organization, I would leave these ladies! And this, my good friend, was a big mistake! It is ridiculous to leave a lady, even when you took her contacts. The contact number itself has no value, don't you agree? Do you want to call her then, or compose and satisfy, go on a date? Or just take something together? Why not do it immediately when you meet her? If you communicate, you took her contacts, however she has free time, why not go for a coffee with her? This way, you give yourself more time to reveal yourself, get to know her better and understand if she really likes you or not. Thus, you reveal to her that you are not the next man who picks up the phone and does not call! You reveal your interest in her, the desire to be with her, which obviously creates some comfort! Next time you're with her on a date, set everything up beforehand so that, if possible, you don't just stick to the initial script in the form of a date! If she's gone on a date with you, you're fascinating to her, and you might even have sex on the same day! So, prepare a place in advance, and at an opportunity, do not be afraid to act and welcome her to go out with you! Good friend, you do not even understand how many girls I have lost without doing it before! Satisfied in the club while sitting at a table? Down with just the interaction! Welcome her to go for a drink with you! And after that go dancing with her! You do not know the limits of her desires until you start to act and move yourself! It's very rare for women to reveal their true intentions to men - they want sex as much as we do, that's for sure! However, they don't show it. After all, they hesitate to appear as offered whores. So, my friend, this is our problem! Go all the way, however, do not rush! Think what is even more the proper extension of your relationship, and you can do this now? Tomorrow? Take a look at your answer, and try to go to the end!

Task: the next time you meet the woman, do not limit her contact number or contacts. Ask her what she's getting ready to do, and if she's not against having coffee with you. Now. If she thinks and breaks up, tell her you know a good place nearby (know the concrete beforehand!). Inform her that there is a good cafe, and welcome her there! By doing this work over and over again, you'll discover how to make the most of the scenario, and an increasing number of your associates will end up with sex! Do something about it!