Is teenage with love is boon or ban?

Hello readers most of us reading this novel would have crossing or yet to cross our teenage.The entire human life is going to be a pain or pleasure can be decided only on the view that how we handle our teenage should we love blindly and enjoy our teenage with as many dates as possible or should we look into it as a opportunity to overcome challenges by controlling our emotions and feelings and hope for the best in the rest of our life and using teenage as a golden hour for learning our life is a matter of concern. Teenage is not a boon or ban but it's based on how we make it❤️