Bases

When I was a little glrl, I love to watch English movies and read pocket books namely Mills & Boon, etc. I was so amazed by how the writers describe and made to life romantic stories, especially the sex parts. I learned the basics of writing and as if experienced sex through reading and exploring novel after novel. There I knew that we can be aroused and feel the thrills and ecstasies of romance, sex and the act done with a partner even through reading, much more dreaming or fantasizing about the act with the one you love, desire or crushing. It was a wonderful adventure during those times when I was in my teen age years. It is still an amazing experience for me now, when I read stories, sometimes over and over again until I got enough of the book. But I never get enough of stories and experiencing the journey of the characters on paper back.

Okay, in almost all the romince books I have read, it talked about bases, or a guy would ask his friend about his date with a hot chick and if he was able to get to the first, second, third or what bases. Haha!, Well, it's not a game of baseball but a game of foreplay in sex. I don't believe in foreplay but what I believe in is the art and nature of making love. If we haven't had experienced sex yet, we could be stunned by the act itself or for first timers it could be awkward or painful. But it is in between our partner and us, we can talk about how we will handle each's movements, positions and ofcourse women needed to be cared and feel comfortable, desired. Men should hold his woman gently like a glass we didn't want to break even though we have that urge to break her, hymen. But sex is not just breaking a girl's hymen and going inside her. Remember that we are all energy and what we emit all types of emotions and what we get from our partner is either bad or good vibrations, energies, feelings, pasts or hurts. We need to be careful for, sex will always feel good and pleasurabble but the after effect of it is what we need to consider. If we truly love it'll reflect from the inside out and when we connect with our partner through sex we both receive some sort of a blessing, protection, intimacy and love. But if we had sex with a partner who is selfish and his/her intentions aren't pure, then we will feel lost, broken and alone, more lonely than we started off with the realtionship of, even if, it's just on dates.

It doesn't matter whether we had our partner on first base o whatever bases, as long as our special person felt or feels safe, nurtured, desired, loved and cared for everytime we make love, it'll go the same with us too. We sow what we plant and receive what we loved or worked hard for. The same energy will always be present if we remain, good hearted and honest about our feelings, our selves and our situations. A lot of times, we think that saying "no" if we don't feel like doing the act is bad, but it isn't, especially when we women have our period and we have certain moods that hinder us to feel comfortable having sex with our partner in the moment. If ou partner feels off and it's not in the mood to have sex, then we should refrain from pushing or blackmailing them just to consider the fact the we want them here and now. We should understand that we don't feel good sometimes and that we need some time alone or just sleep and rest, maybe because of work or our partner is tired, or not in the mood to do it. We still have others times or days to make up for that day. We should always consider our partner's feelings for he/she will do the same for us too. We are partners in life and love, and we need to respect each other, not only in words but in actions, more over in making love and making our partner in life happy.