FELLOW FRIENDS

For all my fellow rainbows friends out there, I just want to tell you guys I know it's been hard for you all to cover who you are from your family because you didn't want them to know about you and you don't want to make them disappointed.

But one thing you know for you sure you can come out to them for who you are so with that you can live your life to the fullest because if you keep hiding it you not going to be able live your life to the fullest.

But also, I understand that is not going to be easy for you to come out to them about it because it's going to be a lot of things you will think about and a lot of things that you need to considered about specially if they accept you or not and also you don't want to hurt their feelings specially your mom.

But one thing you should know mom always know about us because she is the want who having us in her belly for 9 month and also see the one who looks after us when we are child and I assure you she always know about you but sometimes she just wait for you to be ready to tell her all your feelings and why she don't want to start asking?, because she knows and she worried that if she start asking when you not ready and you will be lie and didn't tell the truth about it.

But some family member it's just needed time to accept it and understand your feelings when you come out and some it's just accept the way you are because they already know but it's very rarely happened like that. So, in this time I will write some tips for you all to come out to your family which is the same things that I do before I come out to my mom:

1. You need someone to support you mentally when your family can't accept when you come out either is friends, boyfriend, or step sister who already knows and understand you.

2. You need to be ready and you need to prepared everything like a proper answer incases after you come out to them, they going to ask you some question.

3. Better doing it one by one first you didn't need to come out to whole family member in the same times, well because i think it's a good idea let's say like your mom first and after that you will know if you got support or not.

4. Always try to accept everything happens with a good way and clean heart even it's going to be hard.

5. If when you come out, they can't accept you directly don't force it because not all people can understand it and just let them have their own time to understand and accept it and at least you already come out to them.

I think that's all the tips that I can give to you about it I am not sure if its working for you all or you agree with me but if you do you can follow it and if you didnt you can just follow the way that you like and I am not force you to follow my rules.