Abusers Gaslight

Abusers have similar brainwashing tactics as cults, they isolate you, they berate you, they abuse you, make you work while they lazily lay down, or they try to cause you to lose your job and withhold finances from you.

Like cults, at first they're kind to you to lure you in. They're courting you like a predator luring in his prey. They want you to become emotionally invested in them so you won't leave them when they hit you. They make no effort to change their ways and would rather manipulate you.

One abuser only dated women so he could rape them in fear of being reported to the police if he raped a stranger. He did it many times with three different women. His first two rape victims left him. He felt safer raping women in a relationship with him, he did not feel safe raping strangers but wanted to and looked forward to it.

It seems like he felt like the emotional connection they had toward him would keep them from reporting him to the police. This actually happened, it's not understandable, but when you have a normal brain, it's hard to understand the abnormalities of an abuser. Our brains are not wired like their brains are.

Always report the abuser to the police or else he will continue. This abuser just kept trying to date women just so he can rape them. If abusers aren't reported, the abusers will just feel more comfortable raping people. He thinks he can get away with it because no one reported him.

It's like allowing a child to do whatever they want with no punishments for bad behavior, they keep it up because they know they can get away with it. Once you punish the child, the less likely the child will do it again.

An abuser in prison is better than an abuser on the streets, free to harm whoever the abuser wants. Let's stand together and put these abusers behind bars where they belong instead of allowing them to roam the earth, seeking who they can devour and kill. If you know a person who was abused, just, please, call the police on the abuser. It's for the best.