Make some Lemonades.

Winifred walked behind Martha in a dejected manner, all the while avoiding bumping into the people she came across with. 

"You make things very hard on yourself, dear Winnie," Martha said quietly as they kept walking.

"How do you mean? I think I'm actually saving myself instead." Winifred responded in a defensive tone.

"You're unnecessarily making things hard for yourself. Do you know how many servants who aren't even human would kill to be in his bed? Heck, do you even know how some, both nobles and servants had succeeded in getting into his bed but he ended up discarding them like trash?"