THIRTY SEVEN: DOUBTS AND SIGNS III

[SHAIRA's POINT OF VIEW]

As time passes by, I noticed that he seldom goes with us. He missed numerous Sunday masses and family bonding. We used to be the center of my husband's world. But these days, I feel like more of an afterthought. Unfortunately, according to the magazine I've read, this could be a sign of infidelity.

When your relationship stopped being the top priority. He may give himself some additional license to do the things that lessen his free time with you, like going out all night with friends, or claiming that he doesn't know when he'll be back from a specific activity. This excuse may seem benign, but it is a red flag when someone is in a committed relationship. If it happens once or twice, it's probably not a big deal; But when it is said prematurely and way ahead of making plans for the evening, that is something worth paying attention to.