Women lust

Let's deep into one group which this demon affect .Some women may see it as fun at first but everything that is good has it's bitter danger in it.Occasionally women do masturbate but it's not common to then than in men.Most women who mursturbate do it either for fun, pressure themselves,peer pressure,to heal breakups and some prefer it than having a man in bed.Nowardays men are fond of marstubating making them caplict of not satisfying their women in bed.More than 49%of men cannot have a stable sex for upto 20-30 mins but they go for only 10 seconds and have released a condition known as low libido or premature ejaculation.Such men feel ashamed of themselves and in most cases their women opt to go for two choices;

1.Masturbation

Women who are not sexually satisfied by their counter part partners often go for murstabation.After their men have gone for only few seconds,they get angry and destressed and they find other ways like masturbating.The current century,women have been empowered enough for them to do what they want.Today many toys have been made with a symbol of penis and is used by girls and married women to satisfy themselves sexually.These toys most women carry them in their bags and when in bathrooms they satisfy themselves.This for instance is the trend of nowadays and 6 out of 10 do have these tools.Man genital has been substituted with these toys.

Let's carry out a very important study ,in 2020,there were 7.53billion people recorded.Kut of those 50.1%were men and 49.9% were women.Out of these women 64% are married and the rest are not.If these trend continues of buying sex toys in women more than 6 out of 10 women will be buying this toys.Most of these cases are attributed to many causes which are affecting the society of today.Nevertheless, it's true that the society we are into is continuing growing and more girls are been born as compared to boys.If the trend continues women will not have men to marry them and the only outcome will be this dildos.It is important to stay forcus and stop with these toys.

2.Cheating

In most cases people do not recognize cheating with men performance in bed.Cases that erupt in cheating are caused either by women who love money,wives who don't satisfy their husband,wrong partner etc.In today generation there have been alot of cases of devorce which are attributed with cheating.When women are cheated,they feel guilty,low self esteem,unworthy and they feel they don't have good body shapes and are not good in bed.For instance they may cry for days and may not only forbide their husband touching them but some even go sleeping with children or if there is extra room they migrate.

Most houses you see vanished and well constructed ,inside them are rotten marriage.

When women are not properly worked on,they go to other men who can do the same job well and they can pay some cash so as to get the service they need.This is one cause of rotten marriages nowadays.Women love speaking what is their hearts,troubling them and making them happy.

Some women have even toy boys who are out there and they pay their rents, entertainment, hospital bills etc for only the service.The morals of our culture are disappearing each and every day and the people to control them are busy either watching or asleep.I want to rest this issue there for there are many causes of cheating in women but today let's poss here.

41% of women have masturbated in the past month (compared to 64% of men), according to a 2017 study.Women masturbate about eight times a month on average, according to a 2016 survey.27% of women masturbate two to three times per week and 26% masturbate once a week, according to a 2019 study.

What are the side effects? Even good things in excessive proportions can be harmful. If you masturbate excessively,

1. It can lead to wrongness and extreme genital irritation from too much friction.

Living too much in your head and in your fantasies, rather than face reality. Disconnecting emotionally or sexually when it comes to your partner, conditioning yourself to only become aroused or reach an orgasm in one specific way, if you are masturbating the same way every time to how do I know if I am masturbating excessively? You know, you're masturbating excessively when it causes you significant distress. You are masturbating multiple times per day to escape from stress or realities of day to day life. You prefer masturbating rather than an intimate relationship with your partner and therefore, have completely stopped sexual relations with your partner. You regularly injure yourself by rubbing yourself aggressively. You hardly have time for your friends or family. As you are too busy pleasuring yourself. You constantly feel lustful, and fight the urge to pleasure yourself, pain, wrongness and irritation in your genital area facing any of the above problems.

Prevention is better than cure;

If you are feeling you are masturbating excessively and it is hindering your daily life? immediately consult a general doctor book appointment now who may in turn refer you to a psychiatrist or a counsellor at affordable fee.

How do women murstubate,some of you may wonder but,let's get deep into this,I talked to a woman about it and this is what she told me,

How women murstubate.

1.Slow down

So how quickies are usually not as satisfying as long lasting, deeply connected and slow, pleasurable sense? Yeah, well is the same with masturbation. And sure you can make yourself come fast you can rub yourself hard and quick, you can use a vibrator and you will orgasm you will feel the release, but you'll know that you can do better than that. So instead of rushing, I invite you to masturbate slowly. Take your time caress your entire body, slow down, and when you are close to the edge, take your hands off, relax and breathe. The urge to come with pass and you will be able to enjoy the pleasure for much longer.

2.Explore pressure

Do you always stroke yourself the same way? Do you touch your genitals the same way you did 10 years ago. shake things up, explore the rest of your body. Be curious and go somewhere else before you reach between your legs. Try using Federer like touch on your stomach on your chest on your legs. caress your face and neck. Pinch your nipples scratch your thighs you're the Explorer. Keep trying until you find all of your pleasure zones.

3.use lope

This is so so important and makes masturbation so so good. And using saliva or other bodily fluids is fine as well. But a good lobe makes things just delicious.

4. move your body.

You know how you usually sit or live perfectly still, when you're masturbating? Don't do that. I'm kidding. You can do that. But also experiment with different kinds of movement. You can undulate your body you can shake it, you can stretch it you can allow it to flow. When you move your sexual energy and your pleasure naturally expand through your whole body so you will feel much more of it.

5.use the mirror

This is a really Fantastic and you can either use a little handheld mirror to watch your genitals or you can use a big mirror and watch your entire body. Most people have never seen themselves in arousal they have no idea just how hot and sexy their bodies look when they are turn down.

Findings

According to my research most women who marstubate they know what they do but also some do not know.A teenager who is starting ait at the age of 15-19 years don't know what they are doing until they start watching pornographic videos.According to a research carried out , pornography is causing alot of problems to many people which one if them is influencing continuous masturbation.

Other factors influencing female masturbation include the following;

Peer pressure

Girls who are in school have alot of peer amongst themselves,some do things because others are doing it.They run a run they cannot finish.

Lesbianism

Lesbianism is one major group that codolses musturbation.

Family conflict

Parents affects their child morale when they are growing.Most of parents who fight quarrel,where fathers drink and fight wife's causes anger to most females child.Inturn they go to this act.Its one major theory that I will look into later

Rape

Most girls raped when young,they loose their emotions mentally and physically.They become aggressive and don't want to be associated with men.When counselling , mentorship and therapy is not done they perfect their sexual life by masturbating.

Devorce

Women who loved their husband much and are devorced due to one thing to another some are ford of this behavior.Marstubation is thinking about sex and act as if you are doing it,they think of the sex life with their husband and they start marstubating.

Adultery

Cheating of husband may cause marstubation to women who don't want to cheat.Adultery is one major cause of this act to faithful women towards their husbands.

Pre and post mental problems

Post mental problems is a problem affecting brain either by physical attack,brutal beatings and much more.These is mainly due to aggressiveness of husband towards wife or children.

Celebrity

Children who love their celebs mainly are fond of doing what they do.If their celebs do murstubate they will do it to be like them without knowing the danger they are putting themselves into.

The above will be discussed much into details in next chapter

Conclusion

Advocates or gynecologist do not advocate for murdtubation in women, nevertheless women do not hind to this advice and there are many problems associated to this but there are also good outcome.However all of these have it's climax and if not handled with care it will bring problems.This article has not touched in and out of this behavior in women, it's therefore for the reader to know how to deal with this especially to the people who are about to start it.

To parents, it's high time you look your girls behaviors mental them and always advocate for a relationship and not use of fingers.When God created man He knew how He created him,when He put man into deep sleep He knew the person who He was creating for Him.Each day people try everything possible to change God creation and want this to look like this?the other to look like that?but the question remains why do that? Was God foolish when he gave men penis and women vagina for them to have sex?why change all these and come up with your toys to satisfy your self.

I will end this with the story of Sodom and Gomorrah.Gen 19:1-40, It's a story all of us know of,the people of Sodom and Gomorrah where practicing sexual misbehavior with their fellow fellow men to men , women to women,they did it openly in every places they want to.This made God to punish them by sending a surphur of fire in the city and burned them completely ,all animals and everything was destroyed.So many people will perish not because they don't have knowledge but because of ignorence.The world is changing and if you want to know it's,look at how the weather pattern is changing,we are busy making our graves and I will assure you we will burry you.For many women living in a couple (45%), masturbation remains a taboo subject, no doubt because they fear that this practice would be interpreted as a sign of the inability of their partner to meet their needs. The taboo around female masturbation therefore still has great resonance, not only among women who struggle to disassociate sexuality and conjugality but also among those whose partner shows signs of failing sexuality.