This can be done with or without your partner, whichever you prefer. "—Katie Top Tip Why not invest in a water-resistant vibrator to make bath time even more exciting? Before applying any lubricant to your exposed clitoris, lie on your side with your legs open and pull the labia of your vagina back with your fingers. After that, either you or your man can gently tap at your clitoris. What He Said: "When she asked me to join in, I found it to be a total turn on—great for getting warmed up before sex." I liked watching her stimulate herself. John (Danni's Guy)'s top tip: "Why not use different kinds of lube to create a variety of senses to really get your clitoris fizzing?"