Get him to sit cross-legged on the bed before climbing on top of him. Wrap your legs around him as you gently ease down on his erection. When you are both seated with your backs to one another, grab each other's elbows and lean backwards, sort of like in a tug-of-war game. If you have a lot of flexibility, you can tilt your head back and rest it on the bed all the way. Keep still and focus on your connection to one another. Not for the weak-willed!
What She Said: "I really felt connected with my partner even though we were only able to keep it up for a few minutes. I loved this move because it was so intimate. But that's all you need to know about this position; we incorporated it into our usual romantic activities and discovered that it was a great way to build anticipation. "—Becca's Top Tip: Pull yourself even closer together with your arms; the position will become more erotic the closer you are together.