By the time our ship, Nimbus, reached the vicinity of the Celestial Yin Sect, Alice and I barely managed to pass the training to act like traditional females.
For my sister, who was always a bit unruly, acting submissive was quite difficult. Still, after getting punished by mother for her every mistake, she became more obedient and eventually passed the training.
But whenever the training was over, she would return back to her original personality, clinging to me to kiss her pain goodbye, all the while complaining about how her butt had become swollen after all the spankings received by mother as punishment.
On the other hand, for me, the training was easy as I found the critical point of acting like a traditional woman overflowing with feminity.
Just act as you're asked to, and don't speak much, either in protest or giving your opinion.