Rather than suggest alternatives, you merely nod, secure in the knowledge that the elder has chosen wisely.
"I understand that you may not want to shoulder this burden, but you must know that it's for the good of your people and your friends. Of course I cannot compel you to follow my plans, but before you give me an answer, please indulge me with one final test. Afterward you may stay or leave as your heart wills it."
One Final Test