Festive Beginnings - Thala Diwali

As November approached, Maya and Avin found themselves immersed in the festive spirit of Diwali, marking their first celebration of the festival as a married couple—referred to as "Thala Diwali" in Tamil culture. This special occasion called for grand celebrations and traditional practices, providing an enriching blend of both their cultural heritages, particularly as they decided to celebrate it in Coimbatore with Maya's mother, Meera.

The morning of Diwali started early, with the family waking up before dawn to the sounds of festive music from the neighborhood. Following Tamil tradition, Maya, Avin, and Meera began their day with an oil bath—an auspicious start meant to purify and refresh the body and spirit. Maya and Avin, wrapped in new clothes, helped Meera prepare the ritualistic oil, warmed with herbs and spices, signifying a cleansing of the old and a welcome to the new.

After the bath, they donned new clothes, a vibrant mix of colors reflecting the joy of the festival. Maya chose a bright saree, while Avin wore a traditional kurta. The home was already vibrant with rangoli designs at the entrance, created by Maya the previous evening, incorporating motifs symbolic of prosperity and happiness.

Breakfast was a hearty affair, with traditional sweets and savories like `Murukku`, `Athirasam`, and `Pongal`, which Meera had prepared. The air was filled with the aroma of ghee and jaggery, mingling with the scent of incense from the puja room where they performed the Lakshmi Puja, invoking blessings of prosperity from the goddess Lakshmi.

Avin took the opportunity to share how Diwali was typically less grand in Kerala, often marked by lighting lamps and some fireworks, but without the extensive rituals found in Tamil culture. Maya appreciated the nuances, enjoying the blend of simplicity and depth in their celebrations.

Post breakfast, the family engaged in lighting firecrackers—a fun and noisy tradition that brought back childhood memories for Maya and introduced Avin to the playful aspect of Diwali in Tamil Nadu. The neighborhood echoed with the sounds of celebration, as children and adults alike shared in the joyous occasion.

As evening approached, they prepared for the Diwali dinner, inviting a few close friends and extended family members. The house buzzed with laughter and chatter, the community coming together to celebrate the festival of lights. Avin, feeling more at home with each passing moment, enjoyed explaining the significance of each dish to guests unfamiliar with Tamil customs.

As the day wound down, Maya and Avin took a moment to step outside and watch the fireworks lighting up the night sky. Reflecting on their day, they discussed plans for celebrating Pongal, another major festival, which would be their first as a married couple in a few months.

"We should plan something special for Pongal as well, perhaps incorporate elements from both our traditions," Avin suggested, excited about the prospect of creating new traditions together.

Maya agreed, her mind already racing with ideas. "It'll be our first Thala Pongal. Let's make it memorable, blending the best of both our worlds."