Ethics and Public Relations – The Practical Lesson
The sun had barely risen when the nuns-in-training gathered in the large lecture hall of the convent. Today was not just another day of theological discussions; it was a day of practical learning. Sister Lawrenceville, a respected figure among the senior nuns, had arranged a unique session on ethics and public relations—an essential part of their religious journey.
The lesson aimed to prepare them for the outside world, where nuns and priests were often perceived as outdated or irrelevant in modern society. More importantly, it was about how to communicate the message of Jesus in a way that was approachable and effective.
The Morning Lecture
Sister Lawrenceville stood at the front, her calm and wise demeanor immediately commanding attention.
Sister Lawrenceville:
"My dear sisters, today's lesson is not just about words, but about action. As nuns, we dedicate our lives to God, but we do not live in isolation. We are a part of society, and it is our duty to engage with people, to show them kindness, and to guide them with love and wisdom. However, the world does not always understand our role. Some see us as outdated, irrelevant, or even restrictive. Today, we will learn how to address these misconceptions."
She paused, scanning the room.
Sister Lawrenceville:
"But first, tell me, what are some of the common things you have heard people say about nuns and priests?"
A few nuns hesitated before speaking.
Sister Beatrice:
"People think we have given up on life, that we are forced into this way of living."
Sister Eleanor:
"Many believe we are too strict, that religion should be modernized to fit today's world."
Maria:
"Some even say we waste our time preaching about a faith that people no longer follow."
Sister Lawrenceville nodded.
Sister Lawrenceville:
"Yes, these are all common thoughts. But we must not see them as attacks. Instead, we should view them as opportunities—opportunities to educate, to guide, and to inspire. Today, we will put our words into practice. We are going to visit the church's school, where you will interact with children and their parents. This will be your first experience in facing public perception and building trust. Listen to them, talk to them, and most importantly, show them kindness. That is the best way to spread the message of Jesus."
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The Visit to the Church's School
An hour later, a group of nuns, including Maria, Catherine, and Sister Beatrice, followed Sister Lawrenceville toward St. Benedict's Church School, an institution run by the convent. The school was a small but lively place, filled with children from different backgrounds.
As they entered the schoolyard, the sound of laughter and playful chatter filled the air. The children, dressed in neat uniforms, looked curiously at the approaching nuns. Some of the younger ones ran up to them with bright eyes, excited to see new faces.
Sister Lawrenceville gathered the students in the assembly area and introduced the young nuns.
Sister Lawrenceville:
"Dear children, today we have special guests—these young sisters are training to serve God and the community. They are here to talk to you, answer your questions, and listen to your thoughts."
A little girl named Emily raised her hand eagerly.
Emily: (innocently)
"Sister, why do you always wear these long clothes? My mother says nuns dress like it's the olden days."
A few of the children giggled, while some of the parents standing nearby exchanged amused glances. Maria stepped forward and smiled at Emily.
Maria:
"That's a good question, Emily. We wear this habit as a sign of our commitment to God. Just like a doctor wears a coat or a police officer wears a uniform, our habit reminds us—and others—of our duty to serve with love and humility."
Emily seemed satisfied with the answer and nodded. A parent, a woman named Mrs. Carter, then spoke up.
Mrs. Carter:
"Sister, nowadays people believe in freedom and self-expression. They say religion puts too many rules on life. How do you respond to that?"
Maria exchanged a glance with Catherine before responding.
Maria:
"Faith is not about restricting life—it's about giving it purpose. True freedom comes when we understand our responsibilities, not just our desires. Religion is like a compass—it doesn't force you where to go, but it helps you find the right path."
Mrs. Carter seemed to consider Maria's words. Before she could respond, a young boy raised his hand.
James: (curiously)
"Sister, why do priests never get married? Don't they feel lonely?"
Sister Beatrice smiled warmly.
Sister Beatrice:
"That's an interesting question, James. Priests and nuns choose not to marry because they dedicate their lives fully to God and to serving others. While we do not have traditional families, we are never alone—we have our faith, our fellow sisters and brothers, and most importantly, God's presence with us always."
James seemed to ponder this for a moment before nodding.
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Meeting the Parents
After spending time with the children, the nuns moved to a hall where some of the parents had gathered for a discussion. Sister Lawrenceville encouraged the young nuns to engage in conversations and answer any concerns the parents had.
Maria and Catherine sat with a small group of mothers.
Mrs. Peterson:
"Sister, my teenage daughter is questioning her faith. She says the world has changed, and the Bible is old-fashioned. How do I help her?"
Maria thought for a moment before replying.
Maria:
"Faith should never be forced; it should be discovered. Encourage her to ask questions, to explore, and to seek answers. The Bible may be old, but its message of love, compassion, and justice is timeless. Help her see how faith can guide her, rather than burden her."
Mrs. Peterson sighed in relief.
Mrs. Peterson:
"I'll try that. Thank you, Sister Maria."
Meanwhile, Sister Beatrice was speaking with another mother.
Mrs. Wilson:
"My husband says religion is just tradition, that we don't need it anymore. How do I respond to that?"
Sister Beatrice:
"Religion is more than tradition—it is a source of strength, hope, and moral guidance. Many people think they don't need faith until they face hardships. Be patient, and lead by example. Sometimes, actions speak louder than words."
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The End of the Visit
As the afternoon sun cast a golden glow over the school, Sister Lawrenceville gathered the young nuns for a final reflection.
Sister Lawrenceville:
"Today, you have taken your first steps in facing the world's perceptions. Some people will listen, some will not. But remember, our duty is not to force faith upon others—it is to inspire through our words and actions. Continue to serve with love, and the message of Christ will shine through you."
As Maria and Catherine walked back toward the convent, Maria smiled.
Maria:
"Today felt different. I always thought spreading faith was about preaching, but now I see it's about listening too."
Catherine: (nodding)
"Yes, and it's also about patience. Not everyone will understand us, but our kindness can plant the seeds of faith."
Maria looked up at the sky, feeling a quiet peace in her heart. The journey of faith was not about changing others—it was about living the message of Jesus and letting the light of truth guide the way.