chapter 13-feminism

None of them would confess easily to their case,they would all lie or just put the blame on the female.They were all the same they felt entitled to women bodies,they believed we were for them,they can touch and hold us anywhere that they desired.Most even said the women wanted it,they enjoyed just as much as they did.

'Then why would they cry'i asked and he said'because it's was nice'.i knew at that moment that we had a long way to go,wether it's teaching men the difference between joy and sadness,pain and enjoyment either way there was still alot to be done in changing the ideology that women had no rights.i was puzzled by how stupid and barbaric they are.They constantly proved to the entire population that they did not deserve to live in the outside world let alone move freely.They were a threat to the girl child .it's did not matter the race,the age.They were hungry vultures ready to feast.

I had to push them so hard to reach their breaking point whereby they would finally realise that only the truth could set them free at that point.They confessed to their disturbing acts.I loved it more when I would hear them break down and cry,they roared so hard everyone realised how deep the issue actually is.some would sweat heavily even in very cold days still trying to defend themselves.delusional they were,I never had plans to give up.Each day I was there yet again ready to fight till the very end .

On those days I made them realise that they can run but they can't hide.no matter how much they would cover their tracks I got them one by one.The moment my name would be mentioned they would crawl like hungry dogs.

They all went to jail where they belonged,all together to practice their rubbish behaviour.

Rumor said,some were rape by other men.some were beaten up.some were puppets for the others.i did not care ,I had done my job and that was it.That was the start of feminism.They were obligated to learn a lesson to never take advantage of our sisters.

Feminism to us meant taking our power back,having the same opportunities just as men have and never feel like underdogs anymore.men started fearing us and that made the girl child more comfortable and young women progressed so well.They owned the space and would grab opportunities that came their way.

I started an initiative that empowered girls,we encouraged women to stand up and refuse if they have to.why should women live in fear,why should we be worried as to what going to happen to us next.we let them know that as long as we got each others backs there would be no challenge that could take as down.women are smarter and we don't only belong in the kitchen just as the men of our society had brain washed us into thinking that our capabilities only are with dishes and spoons.

I wanted women to feel safe without refraining themselves from opportunities they had been long wanting.I wanted men to know that we indeed have the power to take them down.

One of my friends who was convinced that I had been too busy to focuse on myself,propose that we would go for a trip to the neighbouring country.i was a bit hesitant but I ended up agreeing since I needed the break.after all my work was kind of tiring with the brand on the side which I had to constantly be making designs and garments.

I needed the outing and as the days grew closer and closer I was more interested.I left my sisters behind so that they would be able to watch over the home and continue with the sewing since the business was still operating.me and Lisa who was my friend at that time went to visit mozambique.we packed everything we needed and by early December we were already on our way.curious about the cultural differences and language barrier but still going there either way.

I had always wanted to travel,go to different countries and get to learn a few things to help wisen me up and going to Mozambique was a start of my traveling.I was lucky since I sat next to a window on our way to Mozambique,on our way to lomahasha border I was looking out the window.

I saw alot,I was loving the nature and people from the Eswatini side of the border.I felt calm and relaxed while the air blow on my face and hair.I was so deep in to the moment ,I could not hear any noise or dancing that came from the other people who were with us.

Until we stumbled across a giraffe which was passing by.I quickly snapped out and gazed at the giraffe it's was beautiful and very tall.At that moment the driver announced to us that we were passing by nhlane game reserve.

I was very excited and I started to fix myself and posture.I wanted to get the best view possible so that I can gaze at the animals in a clear space.I was also ready with my phone to snap photos.

As we were passing by we were all in full attentive mood,we did not want to miss the opportunity.we say quite a few animals and we were greatful for the opportunity even though we were in fear that lions could poop by.we closed all our windows but we were still scared.

After a long journey we finally arrived at the border and managed to pass over to Mozambique.I was greatful to Lisa for giving me such an opportunity to share with her,I was already looking forward to what was next.