MARRIAGE PREPARATION

Redeemer's father, as the head of the family, began speaking, explaining the reason for their gathering.

Justina's uncle responded, stating that they already knew the reason and had completed their background check.

After careful consideration, they had accepted the marriage proposal. Consequently, Redeemer's family had formally requested Justina's hand in marriage and received blessings.

The preparations for the traditional wedding commenced, filling the bride's household with joy.

Auntie Paulina, Justina's mother, convened the women of the extended family to discuss the necessary items for the marriage list. "We must do things properly," she emphasized, clapping her hands.

"This is not just about Justina; it's about our family's honor, as this is the first time in decades that a lady in our family is getting married."

The final, long-awaited list was completed, featuring clothes, drinks, foodstuffs, and, most importantly, the bride price.

Justina's uncles were particular about this aspect. "We won't make it too difficult for the young man," Uncle Kojo said. "But we must ensure our daughter is respected."

On Redeemer's side, preparations were also underway. His father, a proud man, insisted on doing everything correctly.

He sat Redeemer down and advised him, "Marriage is not just between two people – husband and wife – but between two families." Redeemer nodded, aware that he had to prove himself.

The date for the traditional marriage was set, generating widespread excitement throughout the town. The elderly women in the family advised Justina to choose a traditional outfit for her wedding day.

She selected a beautiful, woven kente cloth, symbolizing her cultural heritage and African craftsmanship.

The vibrant colors and intricate patterns of the kente represented various aspects of life, including prosperity, love, and unity.

The groom also accepted the kente cloth Justina chose, conveying deep cultural messages.

As the wedding day approached, the couple visited elders for counseling, seeking wisdom on building a strong and respectful marriage.

The night before the ceremony, Justina's family hosted a 'Henna Night,' where intricate designs were applied to her hands and feet, symbolizing joy and beauty.

Redeemer's family held a 'Groom's Night,' where he received blessings from his elders and guidance on his new role as a husband.