Are you a Bully or are you Bullied?

In all reality belittling others is just the same as you belittling yourself. Have you ever

thought of that? I promise you that you probably haven't ever thought of that. Did you know that

we aren't at all alike because we our own individual selves. There is absolutely no two people

are ever going to be alike even twins because we make our own decisions vs. having someone

else make our decisions. Don't be afraid to show your true colors and show who you are because

that is who you really are. Everybody is unique in their own ways so what makes different from

everybody else. NEWS FLASH!!!!!! It doesn't change the fact that you are a no good bully who needs to learn their place isn't being a rude, self-centered, arrogant person at all. Don't look a pound people but look at them as if they are as equal as you are. Life is a complete mystery why mess someone else's or your life up just by being a bully to someone else. We all can be amazing champions but the true test is if we can be a true champion by being proper and respectful to our peers. The definition of a champion is a person that has true respect for anyone and everyone. Even in class when you are in a group for a lab or project and your partners won't listen or do anything so you get with all of the work. Well, hate to break it to you but that's a form of bullying. If you apologize to the person you are bullying that doesn't at all mean that you will stop because you could just go to another person to bully. A true apology is sincere and promising you won't ever do it again to anyone else including that person. How do you go about

apologizing is not at all over the phone, text messaging, social media, or in large groups; but it is

either writing a letter or doing it in person and actually meaning it too. Social media is

understandable if you are being a cyber bully then you also need to stop because you have no clue of their stories or who you truly are talking too. There is absolutely no need to be a bully and hurt other people just to make yourself feel better and look better. In the long run you truly look like an awful person who doesn't know how to treat people. Try doing something good for some instead of something bad and see where that takes your life.

Now here is a challenge for you as a person:

Are you a bully or bullied?

If you answered bully, how can you change your ways of your life to better yourself and not be

such a horrible person?

If you answered bullied, what do you think you can do to keep your guard high and confidence up? (Here is a little hint kill the bully within someone by using kindness.)

If you answered both, well then what can you do to not be a bully and stick up for yourself when

you do get bullied?