Chapter 5: Body Language

Everyone has a body language. It differs from person to person. To read body language you need to understand that using only one sign will not help, you have to use multiple signs to tell if she's interested. Im being serious i've seen men that hit on girls because when she was talking to him, she moved her hair behind her ear. He thought it was a good indication, but she was never interested. She moved her hair back because she wanted to hear him better or that was my conclusion. So listen, use multiple signs to see if she's attracted to you.

The first sign is if she is playing with her hair and moving it behind her ear. She also maybe talking in a higher pitched voice because peoples voices get higher when they are talking to the person they like, admire, or want to be around. Hopefully you my boy!!! The other sign is with her face if she is smiling and her eyes are a bit squinted as well. I told you about eye contact so reading her eyes should be a bit more simple. Okay now when you look into her eyes there are 2 things you need to know which are dilated eyes and the places she is looking at. She can have dilated eyes either because she's on drugs or caffeine or the dopamines are being active and usually making her eyes dilate so she can look at you more. When you focus on her eyes while talking to her sometimes its good to deeply stare to get her mixxed up with words, then just giggle at how she was stuttering or mumbling her words up. Thats when you tell her a compliment about the way she talks or the way she looks. Examples are "Youre cute when you stutter sometimes" or "Im sorry for deeply staring I just cant get my eyes off you." Compliments when she is nervous gives a subconscious thought and also boost herself which might make her more able to talk. Another way to see is her hands and arms. Im not to intellectual about reading there hands and arms because it gets confusing, so I focus on more of her head and her body. If you want more details about body language, search it up and learn it yourself.

My experience about body language. Like I said there are so many signs that people give off. Once you observe them and understand it's quite simple how easy people show what they are feeling through the body. Okay I was talking to this chick the way she would lean in and push me around playfully. I already knew she was into me buf I didn't make a move cause I didn't care.

(I will be making edits to add more details to body language as well. )

When she is leaning into you a bit then she is trying to get into your little box. Leaning towards you can indicate she wants to hear what you say and wants to understand you better. Remember that you need multiple signs to see it she is attracted to you. Also make sure she seems relaxed and calm. It can make everything even better. Another tip is when you see her walking by and she looks at you and looks down fast, that basically means subconsciously she thinks you are more superior then her and you should just go up to her and talk. A few things you can do to break the ice. Introduce yourself and grab her hand. When you walk with her side to side bump into her like you want to play around with her. She'll get a friendly fun vibe from that. When you are a bit closer with her put your arm around your girls shoulder it can make her feel either 2 things. Woah he put his arm over me what a hero so superior. Or 2 um okay why did he do that to me and maybe ill let this slide or ask him to take his arm off me. This is only when you get to know her even more probably during the 6 meet up. The more touchy she is with you the more she wants to be with you.

This is what you need to remember for body language.

1. Make sure you have multiple indications about her body language she is unconsciously or consciously giving off.

2. If she leans in then she wants to hear you more or you talking a bit to quiet.

3. When she is relaxed then you should focus on her and keep her calm and interested in touchy-feely.