Making the Right Decision in Life

We always make decisions and choices in life, sometimes we tend to make the wrong ones, and we sometimes regret and feel bad about making the bad decision. But for me, it's ok if you make the wrong decision, in that way, you will know or explore what is the best choice or path you will make so that your wrong decision will lead you to the right one. It's very normal for us to make right and wrong decisions. It happens to us every day. Once you make the right one, you can/will know that this is the path that is made just for you.

I tell myself that "Is this the right path for me?" "Am I making the right decision?". I always ask myself about it because there's a 50/50 chance that I'm making the right and wrong decision. After all, I'm confused about my decision. I cannot tell if Industrial Engineering is the right course for me (when I still study Engineering), but I like Engineering because I love challenges because Engineering is hard. It's not hard if you study hard, but if you will ask me, I don't know what is the right course for me, like I don't have a liking to other courses, but I have interests in some courses like Psychology (the course I'm studying as of now). I'm the one who told my mom that I will shift to another course. From ABM (Accountancy, Business, and Management in SHS) to Engineering, because Accountancy is too hard for me and I decided to study Engineering because I know that my mom would be happy and I want to be like my mom, I want to manage industry, but my only problem is I failed one subject three times already (calculus), the moment my mom found out about it, she told me that if I failed again I would give up Engineering. I felt depressed. I searched for other courses and Psychology is the one that came up in my mind because I want to study human behavior and mental health because when I was in High School, I want to read a book all about Psychology when I saw a book about Psychology in the bookstore, my eyes would stick to that book. My friends also told me that Psychology fits me because I know how to find solutions to their problems, and I'm also a great motivator. I also want to give up Engineering because it's hard, and I don't have time to rest already because there are many requirements and all, but I motivated myself to strive harder because I want to pursue Engineering, and I don't want to shift and transfer to another school.

When making the right decision/choice in life;

· Don't overthink.

· Think with your head and what your heart desires are.

· The brain and your heart must be balanced.

· Just be positive and confident in making decisions in life.

· The fear of failure

It's ok to fail like what I said in the first paragraph;

· Just be who you are

· You know your weaknesses and strengths.

With your strengths and weaknesses, you can relate it to making choices in life. According to Graham Brown, "Life is about choices. Some we regret. Some were proud of it. Some will haunt us forever. The message: We are what we chose to be". According to John C. Maxwell, "Life is a matter of choices. And every choice you make makes you".