Everything Happens for a Reason

Do you believe that "everything happens for a reason?" I believe that it is. In our life, we are coping and facing difficulties and to just make it positively, we say, "Everything happens for a reason" It happens in relationships, diseases, illness, deaths, and many more. The choices we make, the outcomes of our choices, and every person that comes into our lives. All of these have reasons, and these reasons are what makes who we are today. Sometimes, things happen the way we don't want it to be like we control our lives, but there are things that we cannot control. These could affect our plans and sometimes gets on our way. Believing is the key to it all because nothing is impossible if you only believe.

In a relationship, when you broke up with your girlfriend or boyfriend, we might feel regret, but if you are mature enough, choose your experience to empower yourself and others. Believe that there's a reason behind your failed relationship. It is also important to have closure to the person, with that, you can talk about your failed relationship and be a good friend despite your break-up. Do not be afraid to accept reality because it solves your problems and eventually moves on because maybe, you find someone much better than your ex, and he is the one for you.

I have an illness, it's called scoliosis, and it is when you have a curvature of your spine. Some people would say, "Why do I have this illness" or "Why me of all people" some will regret having the illness, but me, it never hinders me, I feel pain in my lower back whenever I stand and walk for a long time, but that pain makes me feel a lot stronger and to believe in myself that I will overcome this pain that I'm feeling. Today, I have my physical therapy just to lessen the pain and not get severe. I realized that I have this illness when I was 15 years old, and I just ignored that I have it because I want to live normal without thinking about my illness.

When I was in Senior High School, I get so stressed out about my academics, especially making research papers. I suffered getting black circles in my eyes because for two straight weeks. I only slept for 2-4 hours to finish it. I just told myself that, "Everything will be ok, that it will turn out well," and "Everything happens for a reason" Eventually, those hard work and sleepless nights made me pass all of my subjects, and I graduated as one of the dean's list. I can say that those challenges and struggles that I face have finally turned out well. I overcome it.

When I was in college, I studied Industrial Engineering. I know that this course is difficult, especially engineering mathematics and science (chemistry and physics). During the first week of class, I suffered lots of pain, like I wanted to give up and end my life because I can't take it anymore. After all, it's super difficult, and I get stressed out, but I told myself, "things will turn out well, eventually," but things do not turn out well for me because, in my calculus class, I repeated it for three times already. All I could think of is to just quit. I've decided to shift to another course and transfer to another school because studying there is difficult and can damage my mental health. I wanted to not quit, but it needs to, I need to. I also realized that studying engineering is not meant for me. I made a self-assessment on myself, and I realized that I want to help people in need, and that's why I want to study Psychology. When I transferred, the teacher welcomed me wholeheartedly, and now I'm doing good on my studies, I got high grades in all subjects, and I'm hoping that this is it, this is the course that I'm graduating.

In life, good and bad things may happen, sometimes unexpectedly. Believing is what we needed. Nothing is impossible if you believe. Just dream big, face your fears, believe in yourself, be and stay strong, and move forward. In life, there's past and present, yesterday and today, if you suffered a lot yesterday, then maybe, something good will happen to you. We know that life is beautiful and hard, there's darkness and light, and there's light after darkness.

"Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes good things will fall apart so better things can come together".

– Marilyn Monroe

"Sometimes it takes a wrong turn to get to the right place"

– Mandy Hale

"Everything happens for a reason, live it, love it, learn from it"

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