Ideal Type

An ideal type is your type of person that catches your eyes and attention, a person that you are interested in, either his or her characteristics or features. Most of us have an ideal type, most of them are handsome or beautiful, had some sense of humor, open-minded, a Korean celebrity, actor, singer, and many more. These ideal types are just your ideal types or your bet and likes, it may not exist because, in our minds, we tend to visualize the person that we like and our preference will change over time, for example, you like a handsome or has a sense of humor kind of person, but you end up dating a person that is kind of opposite to your ideal type. Visualizing is different in the actual or real one because what if that person does not fit your ideal type, but you like or love the person. Keep in mind that if that person does not meet your standards or ideal type, but you like the person, accept that person who they are because that is the problem here, if they do not fit our standards, we just ignore and reject them and I can relate to that.

I can relate to that because I stick to my standards, but first, I will tell you about my ideal type of guy. I want a guy that is handsome in and out, has a good sense of humor, kind but a little bit of a bad boy, adventurous, tall, chinito, older than me (1-3 years), GOD fearing, and many more. I have many ideal types. Some boys wanted to court me, but I refused and rejected them because they are not my ideal type. Some boys captured my standards, but I cannot have them. I don't know, maybe because they also have their ideal type of girl, but it's not me, I guess. But there are two persons, the first person courted me, I accept him, but I rejected him in a couple of weeks because I don't know, maybe because I realized that I'm not the one for him, he deserves better, and I don't feel anything when I'm with him, but we are in good terms, we are friends. The problem is me because I cannot decide. I'm confused at that time. The second person is my crush, he knows that I have a crush on him because I confessed to him when I was in Senior High School, he said that only if he knew…, but I know that God has a plan for me, maybe it's not the right time for me to have a boyfriend, but I'm patient. Love is unexpected, you will never know, and I want to focus on my studies.

We often tend to dream of our ideal type, but these characteristics would help us search for what you would expect on the person, and these are:

· A person whom you can talk to.

· A person who understands you.

· A person who can accept your imperfections.

· It makes you happy every day.

In the end, I realized that I don't have an ideal type because it changes all the time. For me, there's no ideal man and woman, but if you do love each other, then those ideal types will go away. You don't have to even think about it. Most couples, when being interviewed, they would say, they don't know why they fell in love with each other, and that is the power of LOVE.

Finding the perfect one is hard, but it will happen unexpectedly, just be patient, and it will come. Maybe they are not your ideal type, but he or she makes your life beautiful in a way you want, which others can't. Do not stick to your ideal types because that would complicate, if you will only focus on your ideal type, then you will have a hard time getting a partner. Ideal types only exist in our minds. If you are in a relationship, do not expect a lot from your partner, because that would ruin your relationship. Just accept each other's flaws, we may not have everything a guy or a girl wants or needs but we tend to find ways for the one we love, we may buy expensive gifts to make them happy. All we need is LOVE.