Be Yourself

Us girls, we are the ones who would take and grab the opportunity to know the guy first and make the relationship exciting, we also have the power to make authority in a relationship. When we talk about a relationship, it's like riding a roller coaster, it's exciting, and you feel fear and nervousness, also there are up's and downs like fights and misunderstandings, these are the criteria's of a relationship, you need to be true to yourself. Be yourself. When you are with the one you like or love, you don't need to be someone else or change yourself because that's what he likes.

My experiences when I'm with the guy I like, I can't talk properly, and I can't look at him directly at his eyes for too long, I make a plan just to be noticed, and I feel flustered when he is near me. Overall, when I'm with the person that I like, it's like I have butterflies in my stomach like I'm nervous and happy. If you like the guy, it makes your heart beats faster. It's not also easy to act normal in front of him. Trying to be yourself is necessary. It's normal to feel on cloud nine but breathe and act normal, and that's what I do. If you approach him, speak and calm down.

When talking to the guy you like:

· Act Normal- When talking to the guy you like, act normal even though the inside your heart is about to explode.

· Calm Down- Sometimes it's not easy to calm down when your crush is around, but tell yourself to calm down and relax.

· Be outgoing- Do not be shy and awkward, be outgoing like question him about something, and you would start a conversation.

· Smile- Wear your best smile. Smile like it's your best asset. Smile is the way to start everything.

· Keep the conversation fun- Do not be awkward. The guy could keep talking because the topic is fun.

· Be yourself- Do not forget to be yourself. Do not be like others. By being yourself, the guy would like you because you are being you, and you are different from others, and most guys like that.

Some people have different ways just for the guy to notice them, some are acting cool, and some have different ways just to be noticed. I do that sometimes because I want to impress him and make him notice me. I am not those girls that would wear thick make-up and style themselves for a guy, I have no filters, I act naturally by being myself, on what makes me comfortable, but sometimes I want to show off. Boys also have the same feeling when they like a girl, even if they would act tough and all just for the girl to notice them, it's their strategy also to get a girl.