Patience

I don't need a boyfriend. We don't need to have a boyfriend. Why rush people? It's so good to be single. I always told myself to be patient and don't rush things, and you need to take it slow because the right person will come. It's quite stressful, and I feel bitter sometimes when I see couples because I want to experience being in a relationship. Right now, I'm happy being single, imagine yourself having freedom, no commitments, and you can do what you want. You don't need to think about the misunderstandings between you and your boyfriend because your priority is your goals, hobbies, your friends, and family.

To be honest, it's not easy to find the right person who can be with you and share your ups and downs. I can say that because I'm now 20 years old and in my 20 years of existence, I've never had a boyfriend, and I'm not thinking of being in a relationship yet, but if love will come, I will grab the opportunity and give it a try if it will work.

I've experienced being courted, but I rejected them because I know that I am not the one for them. In my mind, I want to be in a relationship, but I'm not ready yet. I also experienced having a mutual relationship with the person I like, but we did not take it to the next level like being boyfriend and girlfriend. Maybe I haven't met the guy yet. For me, it's ok if I don't find the right one yet, though it's annoying, I will wait for the right time, and if that right time will come, I will treasure those moments with him and make it work.

I want to find a man that is worth the wait. For me, I want to meet, date, and be in a relationship with a person that I can say "he is the one" and hopefully ends up being my husband. I know some would say that it's impossible, it will not work, it's not like that today, and many more. I don't care because I want that kind of relationship. I want to date someone whom I could see living the rest of my life with me.

In my 20 years of existence in this world, I have met countless people, especially boys, I have interacted with them and flirt with them, but after seeing their real color, most of them I realized that was not meant to be. I know their handsome and all, but if I see a trait that I don't like, then bye, you are not my type. You know I have my standards. By talking and knowing more about the guy, you will know what you like and don't like in a guy.