Chapter 11

Chapter 11

Dawn -

Everyone seemed to be in awe of the seriousness behind Dani's speech.

Dani: 'You have come here because you wanted to learn how to embrace and indulge in the side of yourselves that society says you should hide. One of the problems with that is most of the exposure this community gets in the average Society is negative. Stories on the news are never about how some people find the type of release needed through enduring physical pain in a controlled and safe manner to be enough help with their mental stability to get off of medications. You don't hear about how certain physical types of play can replace massage therapy and the need for muscle relaxers. What you hear about are the horror stories from uneducated and incompetent people who should never have been doing what they were in the first place. The stories you hear in the news or people who died from asphyxiation because they were participating and breath play incorrectly. You hear the stories of the permanent damage done by someone who had no business telling another person up cutting off circulation to critical parts of the body. We meeting the other instructors in myself are here to prevent you from ever being involved in one of those stories no matter what side of it you may be on. I'm not going to call anyone out because I believe in giving everyone a chance and at this point I don't know that publicly humiliating anyone is going to actually benefit them or their peers. So if it happens to be you that I am talking about you can keep quiet to prevent yourself from being embarrassed. I overheard a handful of student talking this morning how about how they were ready to get past the boring lectures that seem designed for idiots. They made it very clear that it did not matter how you addressed someone as long as they did as they were told. I tried not to hang around too long because I knew my temper would set in and I would very quickly intervene in this little group but decided to use it as a teaching moment instead. I have seen the dangerous difference in Cocky and Confident. Just because you identify on the top side as I have stated before gives you absolutely whatsoever No Authority or power over any other person on this campus or in this world. If you are under the impression despite the various disclaimers made throughout your application process that you can just come here to meet people to beat and serve you you need to leave today. I have played with more people then I can count at this point over the years. I have beaten them, I have choked them, I have played mind games with them to the point they were in tears, I have humiliated them publicly and privately, I have degraded them, I have cut them, and I have burned them. I have left my mark both temporarily and permanently physically and mentally more people than are in this room today. Not a single person in this room is any better or more worthy of respect than any of those people. If you develop the right connection and share the right energy with someone to where you mutually negotiate and agree to an exchange of power it is a beautiful thing. But idiots who think that they can call themselves a master or a dominant which means they don't need to pay attention to these boring lectures, those are the people who give this community a bad name because those are the ones responsible for the injuries and deaths that this community is known for to the public. They're the ones who think having a slave or submissive means that they get everything they want and offer nothing in return. They're the ones who send those so-called slaves or submissives to years of therapy to undo the mental damage and torment that they suffer. So I will say one more time that if you have a problem with the fact that you will be held accountable for every piece of information you are given no matter how many times you hear it or how well you already think you know it, if you have a problem learning about the safe way to do things, if you have a problem accepting that you are no better than anyone else in this room and will not be treated as such then you can check with my secretary to get your dismissal forms.'