Straightforwardness is something rare. People are afraid to be direct because of the possible backlash. Women and people of color in particular. It all stems from being oppressed by society. Now that we live in a time that almost everyone accepts whoever you choose to be, it is easier for people to find their voice and confidence in being candid.
I don’t understand the point of beating around the bush. Whether bad news or good, it’s just better to spit it out rather than drag it on. It will not only hurt the other person, but you also dig a deeper hole for yourself.
After my very vocal outburst in front of the royal family, the tension in the room was too thick. I don’t think a knife could even cut through it. All I wanted to do was understand more about my new job. Instead, I had to endure a complete mess of an evening and still the subject of my assignment has not yet arisen. It seems like I have to force the discussion myself.