PARTNERS IN LIFE OR LIFE PARTNER

Life partner. Choosing a life partner was not much easier for me. In my way of life I have met with many women of different ages and different types. Does any partner lasts life long? Nowadays this is a million dollar question. My family has also choose a life partner for me with whom I get married. Before I get married I have never seen my would be wife, we both meet only at the time of marriage. My wife complained me about this at first night, why does not I meet her before marriage? I told her that its my lack of confidence. She does not believe my answer. That was an one liner for me, but in reality I don't meet my wife because I don't want to get married. Marriage would bind me tightly with other worldly affairs. I don't want to keep myself busy with those silly things like marriage...That was my point of view then. But gradually my thoughts turns to change when I started my conjugal life. I do not what other people think about marriage, but to me a person become a complete after he or she get married and started the marital life. My family was fulfilled when I became father for the first time. When I heard the news first time from my wife it was a heavenly feelings. I thanked my Almighty a million times to give me such an amazing gift of life. Without children a family is incomplete. Nowadays people are running after success, career and achievement without getting married or though get married but strictly using birth control policy. This causes many complexities in their future life. But they are unaware and wasting the valuable and golden moments of their lives.

When you are young you have the ability to face problems and difficulties but when you are getting older first you started to lose your eyesight, then other gifts of God slowly. When you are almost busy with your physical and mental problems then how could you manage your work and family life! A common Indian should get married around 25 to 28 or hardly 30 otherwise he or she would not be able to yield any fruits from marital life, there was some kind of exceptions but exceptions are always exceptions those are not rules. Instead of dating your boyfriend or girlfriend you should marry the girl or boy of your choice and enjoy your life to its fullest.

The live in concept has many problems and complexities. In live in there is no bonding of love, loyalty or duty. Which exists is only physical relationship and nothing else. Either partner has the liberty to leave other when they have loose attractions of the other side, no obligations only enjoyment, live in and out...How funny na? Really very funny indeed. A person with an insatiable libido should try to get married earlier to avoid lost of character.