Although Tian An's wedding was already very frivolous because she had been given the title of Princess. But I and Chiu Yeung's wedding was a whole country thing not just a matter between two families. Prince Rong has always been watching us like a tiger waiting for its prey, however with him falling sick hopefully that will distract him for the time being.
I had already prepared a betrothal present to Imperial Uncle. This was known as Gu Dao Li. Mostly it was painting of ancient artworks. Usually, the groom's family would send gold jewellery, dragon and phoenix wax candles, tea leaves and sesame seeds, wine or brandy, etc. Symbolizing prosperity and good fortune as a formal proposal to the bride's parents. However, Imperial Uncle is first the emperor and second the father. As an emperor, he has the most money so sending these material things will not work. However, His Majesty had the same hobby as my late father. They both loved to collect ancient artwork, so I sent some to His Majesty since my father had a lot. Alongside some wine and special food from the Po Hai Kingdom. For this wedding, most of the mother's family wouldn't be able to come as they're too far away and Jiu Mu*(1) was pregnant so Jiu Jiu*(2) would come representing his whole family. The bride's family would also send some gifts in return such as Bedsheets and pillowcases, Bucket and ruler, A tea set, Chopsticks, Bedside lamps
The next thing was to prepare The An Chuang (marriage bed preparation), usually two to three days before the wedding. Typically, the groom and/or his parents or grandparents will be part of the An Chuang ceremony. If the groom's parents or grandparents are not around, then a good fortuned lady whose spouse, children and grandchildren are still around will help out in the ceremony. A young boy whose horoscope doesn't clash with the bride and groom, and who is not born in the year of the Tiger, is also invited to be part of the ceremony.
What is needed for the An Chuang ceremony:
•2 red packets with gold coins of any amount
• 2 or 4 Tangerines or Oranges
• Dried Red Dates
• Dried Longans
• Lotus Seeds
• Pomegranate or Pine Tree Leaves
• Lily Bulbs
• Peanuts or Walnuts
• Dried Melon Seeds
The Fate Coins are to be placed at the four corners of the bed, room, wardrobes and drawers while the antique Chinese coins are to be inserted top facing into red packets and placed at each corner of the mattress and under each pillow. The pair of bedside lamps will be lit and left on until after the third day of the An Chuang ritual.
After the ceremony is completed, the parties involved in the ceremony will recite the following blessings:
May you be blessed with a blissful and harmonious marriage for a century. May you be blessed with plenty of children quickly. May you grow old together. May you always be filled with love for one another
After which, the young boy will be invited to roll on the bed to bless the couple with an abundance of children in their marriage.
Lastly, I must remind Yu Xuan to prepare enough food for the banquet.
Glossary:
1. Jiu Mu is what you address your mother's brother's wife. (Chinese is quite cultural so there are so many ways you call your relatives unlike western cultures where you just call them auntie or uncle).
2. Jiu Jiu is what you address your mother's brother.