#Maybe A Change

You got to start putting yourself 'FIRST' and focus on what you want else it is going to be complicated. When comes to relationship aspects there are boundaries and lines. But what's the point being in one when one partner feel all that type of way in the chapter overthinking? What's the point of one if you're not going to be there or become a better version of yourself for them? Why every time they mention something that you made a habit they become the problem? Tell me, what's the point in being in a relationship with that person when you have those thinking? Cause you don't want to be alone or just want to show you have someone in your life like that even if you screwed up they won't go anywhere and they'll be fine. Is that what you think? You say ,"Oh! that's just tears they going be fine by morning". You're wrong! They struggle when the day comes as well. You're only discouraging that person to detached their self from you and from the ugly part of the world. You just showing them that everyone can be the same and how dangerous it can be for them out there.

When you make one feel this way, you're just messing up the chance they have to live... There is always going to be evil but what happens when there are more good? Don't you think it is going to triumph over the evil? Before you go ahead with what you do or what you say to that person, you need to start focusing on how its going to have an effect on how they're going to think and how they would react. Life is not all about rush. You need to take every step serious as you walk along the path than running it. It can get simple if you make the baby steps. I mean what if that's the path to a second chance and to start over with your one person or would you rather stay and let they live within your daily struggles?