#One's Feelings

Based on the last chapter, it was looking on the others' perspective on one's thinking. As both parties can be good and bad according to their own side of the stories we are no one to judge. So this chapter I would mention based on what we most experience. Might not be for majority but would surely be for someone who needs to hear this. You ever been in a relationship or be with someone where you put your best foot forward and your full 100 percent in them and they like not seeing that part of you and just feel its too much to handle? When you be this person you just tends to put pressure on that person and make it feel overwhelming for them and then they just want to distant their self and just start to lose the connection they had for you. The best solution is to give them their space. Giving someone space you might think for yourself that you will lose that person. That's where you're wrong. Trying to put yourself and being too involve in the person's life can cause them to be more distant from you like I mentioned earlier. By trying to get their attention and affection and want to make everything like it was before when the person is trying to pull away only puts more pressure on them and yourself. It would only increases the distant and possibly take advantage of you.

When things start to get like this between you and someone, you will feel confused, depressed and be having mixed emotions and importantly start to have a very low self esteem on yourself. Might be desperate as well and have it all in you to give it your best to have it all back to normal or the way it was before. May also start thinking that you went wrong and it's your fault. You would not shine having to reel the person back under these circumstances. And when the person having doubts about, the energy of desperation that comes from trying to keep the interest confirms the doubts. Instead, be still and pay close attention to the person's actions while giving them their space. Do not read into certain things because you can have it all misinterpret on what's really happening. Without pressure their true intentions will be revealed through what they does. All it just takes a matter of time, and that same time you can used to work on yourself.