Could it have been so simple?
I had to ask him. “So you never liked Ross…because why? I just always thought you hated him, hated us, because we’re gay.”
“Ah.” He waved a hand at me. “I don’t understand why a man wants another man when there are so many beautiful gals in the world.” He shook his head and chuckled to himself. “But then, as I got older, I did come to see that there were lots of things I didn’t understand and probably never would.” He shrugged. “I won’t lie—it took me some time and several good talkin’-tos from your mom to make me realize that you were who you were—the son I raised.” He looked over at me and said in a rush, almost a whisper, “The son I love.”